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Age: 17
Member Since: October 4, 2008
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Last Update: October 13, 2008
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Okay, so I want a pen pal. Not like writing mail back and forth but like IM. How can I get one like, it'd be a girl. BUt i don't wnat to like have my stuff all over the internet

I'll be your pen pal :]
lol

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13/f
okay, so there is this guy, i just met him a couple weeks ago. and he goes to my new school (just moved). he's REALLY sweet and is soo nice. and we have a lot of things in common. maybe like 3 things so far that are different about us. we can usually relate to each other. So we became friends, and lately i started to like him. like, really like him. i thought opposites attracted? because we're like the same person in different bodies and we attract pretty well. but he said he liked me too when i told him, that was the other night. and i was happy to get if off my chest, but things have been a little off balance with us since then. well, not yesterday, but we werent meshing well today.

but i really really like him, and i think he really likes me too, but how do i move it along?
sorry this was long!

Talk with him about it. It sounds like you've got something good going for you. If you both like each other, this should be fairly easy if you play your cards right.
My biggest suggestion would be to ask him if he could ever see you two as a couple. I know its really nerve racking and everybody likes to avoid these types of situations, but trust me: it'll be fine. You need to find out how he feels about you and if hes willing to take it to the next level. It might be a little awkward or embarrasing to have to confront him like that, but it could turn into something thats gonna make you really happy so its worth it. You dont want to pass something like this up, because you might regret it if he gets a girlfriend or something happens to change the situation. Get it all out on the table. Im sure everything will work out.
Good Luck :]

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14 females. Ok so me and my cuzzins like guys! we think girls are pretty but anyone can think a girl is pretty or not! were never caught looking at girls or anything like that!but when it comes to getting horney, it turns us on to see girl to girl action. we like to finger each other and makeout but i would never do it with anyone else!other than guys of course!we want to know if its normal???i know people that do it!we like to get orgasms and stuff! so are we like bi or something or do we just do it to get pleasure out of it???
by the way guy parts dont gross us out! its just that when we see a girl and guy having sex it doesnt turn us on!

hmm....with the cousins thats almost crossing over to incest. thats not too common. theres nothing wrong with girls liking girls though.

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エ recently had sex about a week ago... エ was sore and now when エ urinate its has a sort a tingle to it... what does that mean? Could it mean エ have a urinary tract or do エ come in contact with a STD? エ really dnt kno, this neva happened before.... All answers are accepted... エ really want to kno エ have a dr. Appt on Tuesday to find out....

It sounds like the start to a UTI. A lot of people tend to get them after having sex, so im sure its nothing to worry about. Its best to have the doctors input though.
I hope everythings okay.
Good luck :]

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I have pretty bad hair, wavy, poofy, dry, and kinda frizzy hair. I wanted to get some more shampoo and conditioner that will help my hair that I can get at like walgreens or walmart. I've been using sunsilk and it helps but not as much as I want. So any sugestions, thankss! :]

I know what you mean. My hairs the same way. Sunsilk does work pretty good, especially if you get the tub of leave-in conditioner.

Another really good brand that I like to use is Redken-All Soft. You can find it at Walmart and its about 10 bucks a bottle but it makes your hair really soft. It takes care of the dry adn frizzy part, but the poofy and wavyness can be solved with a hair straightener and your hair will still stay soft and frizz-free after straightening.

hope this helped
good luck :]

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I got like unwanted facial hair, as in on my upper lips, chin, and alot on my arms. How do I get rid of it without shaving or waxing because my mom doesnt want me doing this stuff being only 13.

I had the same exact problem when i was 13. My mom wouldnt let me shave or anything either. I ended up going to walmart and buying Nair. Its a hair removal treatment. It comes in cream, a deordorant stick type of thing, and an upper lip kit. You just put it on, wait about 10 minutes and rinse it off & the hair washes off.

Another thing I would reccomend for the upper lip hair is this product by Sally Hansan. Im not sure exactly what its called but you can find it at pretty much any store (Walmart, Fred Meyers, Safeway) Its an at home bleach kit. It doesnt make the hair on your upper lip go away, it just bleaches it so that its not noticable. When you try to get rid of the hair there it just comes back darker and thicker, so thats why bleaching works well. You can have your mom take a look at it too. Everything in it is pretty safe and it works really well.

Hope this helped.
Good Luck :]

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i dont know why but lately i am always either depressed about or bored with everything. in school i am starting to give up and its hard to make myself happy. i dont feel like i can talk to anyone and i always feel like a loser and like im stupid and awkward. i need help.

Dont worry. A lot of people go through this. It might just be a faze youre going through, or it could be something serious. Chances are things will turn around if you start thinking positively about everything in life. You could sit down and talk to someone about how youre feeling and they might be able to help. If you start to feel really depressed though to the point where youre thinking of suicide or hurting others then you should consider talking to your doctor to be put on anti-depressants.
I hope things get better.
Good luck :]

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i want my hair to grow really fast, what should i eat? i am too broke to buy products and i am not a fan of those things. lol. thanks.

Theres really nothing you can eat to make your hair grow faster. Everybodys hair grows at their own rate. Some peoples grow fast, some slow.
If you're really desperate to have longer hair you could look into getting hair extensions. The clip-in ones dont cost much and they stay in place really well.

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How do you become extremely popular on myspace? Any ideas? I'll rate high!

Go to Google and type in Myspace Whore train.
It will take you to pages where you can "whore youself out"...meaning get more friends, not actually 'whoring yourself' lol.
you usually have to give them you're URL and they'll add you to a list where people with thousands of friends post bulletins saying 'ADD THIS PERSON"

hope this helped a little.
good luck :]

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does mcdonalds hire 15 year olds?


You should go in and talk to one of the managers to find out.

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I want a little extra cash and i heard that McDonalds was hiring but im only 15. Can you answer my question?

It might depend, but here in AK you have to be 16 to work there.

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Who killed the most people in the world? Thanks in advance, and it's for a school paper.

Google it.
I dont even think that could be found though.
Really strange topic for a school paper...

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Anyone know of a Famous Murder that planned his murder and studied his victims from start to finish? it's for a school paper.

Hm.
you can take a look at this if you want.
Or just google some cases.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1024926/Stalker-murders-Why-Arsema-Claire-Tania-Rana-did-die.html

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there was this quote i once heard
"a forgotten name written on a polished stone...in our hearts?" or w.e and i really need it. my friends father died and id like to tell him it. thanks. asap

Hm. I know "a statue stands in a shaded spot. The name is written on a polished rock. A broken heart that the world forgot".

something like that...
but i dont think that'll help in this case.

if i find one that sounds like what you're talking about, i'll message you :]

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i want to know if this is legal because i couldn't find it online, and i thought maybe someone has experienced something similar.

Monday-Friday i live with my aunt and uncle in CT
Friday night-Sunday night i live with my Mom in NY( i also live with her during the summer)she lives on the boarded of NY and CT so its only like 20 minutes from my aunts and uncles.. anyways..

i got my permit to drive in New York over the summer. Well now im back in school and in a month or so i want to go for my drivers license and i want to be able to drive to school and stuff. My mom is going to register my car in her name so its going to have new york plates. I go to school in CT thats why i live with my aunt and uncle during the week. So i have to addresses one with my mom and one with my aunt and uncle. Can i legally get my license in NY even though i also live in CT? or can i not do that.. and also if i can will i be able to drive to my CT school with a new york state license.. they know i live with my mom on weekends but still to an outsider the situation could seem iffy about where i live.

If I were you, I would get my licence in CT since thats where you spend most of your time. You can get it where ever you consider yourself to live though. As long as you have a NY or CT address on the license it should be fine.
& Yeah, you can drive back in forth even though you have a lisence from a different state.

hope this helped a little.
good luck :]

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okay so i am single and i love flirting, its fun and playful and its just natural. sometimes i dont even mean it. the only thing that worries me is some times i might take it too far once in a while. i dont want that to lead to leading a guy on, im just trying to have fun. how can i control it a little more?
heres an example: i just met this guy, well call him brandon, and hes a pretty great guy but im still getting to know him and im not sure if i like him like him yet. im pretty flirty with him and he flirts back but i think he likes me more than i like him, im just trying to have fun and flirt, but i think he thinks its more, im just not looking for a relationship right now. help! what should i do? i dont want to just stop flirting all together cause then he will probably think im mad at him and i dont want that

thanks in advanced!

Just tone it down a little. Dont be as forward with him. When he flirts with you ignore it sometimes and respond to it sometimes. If you start to slowly brush him off, he'll get the idea and you wont have to directly say "i dont like you like that".

good luck :]

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At my school we have cheerleaders obviously. But last year i didn't make it, so my friend told me that since thre aren't enough cheerleaders theres going to be another try out in January. I really want to make it. So any tips?

Practice! :]
Make sure you're ready. Since try outs arent until January, you still have a lot of time to get your act together.
Make sure you're in good shape, and practice projecting your voice.

Hope you make it.
Good luck!

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Ok, well i really like this guy, and we are VERY close friends, but the more i see him, the more feelings i have for the guy. I can't be positive if he likes me or not though, he shows some signs, but then doesnt, and we dont go to the same school, but i go to everyone of his football games every week and see him every weekend. However, i do not know his feelings for me, but i like him more and more everyday, so what should I do ?

Hmm. I think you should tell him. If you're feeling a little shy or dont wanna take a chance in ruining your friendship you could start by sending him texts or hinting around that you like him. For example, if you go to one of his football games you could run up to him after the game and give him a hug. Even if they lose tell him that hes the best one out there and they're lucky to cute little booty on the team. :]

^ kinda stupid, i know.
but if you flirt like that it can be taken lightly and he'll still get the message that you have feelings for him.

Good luck :]

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i was just wondering does anybody know where i can get a doll that acts just like a real baby...like it cries needs food and needs it's diaper changed...thanx in advance!!!!

xoxo

Toys'R'Us has dolls like that.
If theres not one in your area, you can shop online. :]

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I have found out in my life that whenever I am nervous about something or am dreading something, my eye begins to twitch and only stops when whatever I was nervous about has passed. For the past two weeks this has happened only this time, i'm not really sure what i'm so anxious about.I've actually even bagan to shake. i catch myself shaking regularly and for me it is nOT normal.
Do you think it possible that its just my nerves, or could it be something more serious?

Hm...its hard to tell. It sounds like if theres no pain involved and since it only happens when you're nervous, it could just be your nerves.
If you're worried about it, i suggest calling an eye clinic up and asking a professional. By calling, its free, and if it is something serious they'll let you know and you can scedual an appointment.
Good Luck :]

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