okay so i am single and i love flirting, its fun and playful and its just natural. sometimes i dont even mean it. the only thing that worries me is some times i might take it too far once in a while. i dont want that to lead to leading a guy on, im just trying to have fun. how can i control it a little more?
heres an example: i just met this guy, well call him brandon, and hes a pretty great guy but im still getting to know him and im not sure if i like him like him yet. im pretty flirty with him and he flirts back but i think he likes me more than i like him, im just trying to have fun and flirt, but i think he thinks its more, im just not looking for a relationship right now. help! what should i do? i dont want to just stop flirting all together cause then he will probably think im mad at him and i dont want that
eminems_girl answered Saturday October 4 2008, 8:44 pm: Just tone it down a little. Dont be as forward with him. When he flirts with you ignore it sometimes and respond to it sometimes. If you start to slowly brush him off, he'll get the idea and you wont have to directly say "i dont like you like that".
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