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i love a guy
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 3:02 pm
im in love with this guy we use to go to high school together then he gradute. that how we meet and we start messing around for almost a year now, i do everything he want me to do but i love him he doesnt want a girl friend i dont know hat to do cause i dont want to let him go.we had a lot up and down he like my boyfriend but he"s not he mean the world to me
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Boyfriend making me upset.
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 1:05 pm
Hey all, Im 15/f. And my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over a year. He messaged me on myspace and said i am to obessive. even though he and never talk. Im very sonfused, he didnt break up with me, but i felt horrible after and now i am trying to back off, amd not talk as much. He called me later that night and said he was sorry that we got in a fight.. but now he is hardly talking to me.. Iddk what to do. Any advice?
Thanks in advance
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Does Religion Matter when it comes to a relationshp?
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 10:04 am
Hey there:
Sometimes there are girls that I want to date no matter of what religion they are in and there are other times that I only want to date someone who is catholic which is what I am. In this question, I'm kinda asking for advice on this matter and would like your personal opinions as well. What do you think of the idea of dating someone who isn't the same religion as you? What are the advantages and disadvantages of it?
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3 guys
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 12:45 am
normally i don't like questions about guys but now i'm the one who's stuck between a rock and a hard place. this will probably be long & confusing & i'm sorry.
i'm 18/f.
i dated this guy [A] for 2 years. he's 19. we were each others everythings, first loves, etc. broke up once for a year, went back to each other, were completely perfect, wanted to live together, planned to get married, everything. and it wasn't just like teenage fantasy talk, we were dead ass serious. well about a month and a half ago we started having big problems, he totally changed with me, stopped showin emotion, suddenly there were other girls in the picture, and just really became an ass towards me and started doin things that he ...
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confused>and need help!
Posted Monday April 20 2009, 8:57 pm
(this is kinda hard to explain. hope you understand if you dont ask me)
okay so theres this guy that i went out with and we broke up because we argued a lot. and were still friends. we hang out like a couple times a week. and everytime we do hang out, we make out, and other things like that. and he wants to go farther, but i told him im just not ready. the other day we were hangin out and we got pretty far with things. farther than i had wanted things to go. and he started to undo his pants and then undo mine. i got scared and kinda pushed him away. then he grabbed me and was holding me cuz he realised he had pushed it to far.
well for some reason i want to go out with him very badly but he told me that its better we ...
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confusedd!
Posted Monday April 20 2009, 7:33 pm
I go to high school, and I've known this guy that i like for about a year. (sorry for another 'about a guy question'). He had been going out with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, but during the last half a year they barely even spoke to each other. Anyway, he and i are really close- people always assume we're going out (even his girlfriend got mad at us for spending so much time together). But, he's also a really big flirt, so sometimes i cant really tell if hes into me- some days he'll talk to me constantly, and others he'll just talk to me once shortly, even though im there (for the whole day).
I cant tell what's going on and if im honest, im not really prepared to just go up to him and ask him if he likes me (or tell him that i like him)
any advice?
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boyfriend troubles
Posted Monday April 20 2009, 7:25 pm
15/f
Alright well my boyfriend of two months has lied to me twice before. I got over it and we started over and he told me he would never lie to me again. Well i always have people come up to me and tell me things about him and if they have heard anything nad about him or something bad he did. Today, someone came up to me and told me he went to a party not to long ago and got drunk. The thing is, he never told me he went to a party. When i confronted him about it, he said he only stayed for 15 min. and somebody put whiskey into his mountain dew and he didnt know about it. He got drunk by "accident." So i was really hurt that he didnt even tell me this and he said he didnt tell me because he didnt want to lose my trust. Well...
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nothing to talk about
Posted Monday April 20 2009, 7:24 pm
this guy and i have been texting for the past few days but we always say whats up and we say what we're doing and there's nothing to talk about...
how do i get an actual conversation going??
i'm trying to get this guy to like me by the way so what should i say and talk about??
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Grab his ass
Posted Monday April 20 2009, 6:02 pm
ok so like i have this boyfriend and whenever we're making out and kinda leads my hands to his waist. which is kinda feminine and he makes it kinda obvious that he wants me to grab his ass sometimes and i'm just wondering, whats up with that? like why does he like that? and should i make it a point to grab his ass like more? just like casually? Or would that be weird for a girl to do....
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Eat out.
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:47 pm
My boyfriend never wants to eat me out, he used to, but now he's just like "everyone at school makes fun of people that do it", and he says it's kind of gross. But I love it. What should I do?
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Me and my boyfriend
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:44 pm
We have been dating for 7 months, we are true and strong. We don't fight about stupid little things, we don't do drugs or drink or party like a normal teenager. We truly want to grow old together. We talk every chance we get, we never grow annoyed of each other, and we never get sick of hanging out. We have a promise to never break up and truly try and solve the problem. But since I'm a teenager, I feel immature, but I'm not. And I can sense that people think we wont last (adults).
Is it possible that we will one day be married, and have a happy ever after?
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the ex
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 11:41 pm
So I have veen talking to this guy and we are pretty much together but havent made if official. Well he up in disappeard for a week he finally called sayin he worked a lot the past week and that he found out he might be a daddy. The girl is like a month in a half pregnant which was before me and him so I am not gonna judge him for it. But this girl is only like 17 still in high school she told him she would get an abortion but he said if its his he dont want her to. She thinks that because shes pregnant and its supposed to be his they are gonna be together but he wants to be with me. He idea is for her to have it then try and get full custody because she doesnt really want it unless shes with him. How should I take this?
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Can't Get Over Him
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:59 pm
Ugh. He was perfect, but ended up cheating on me with his ex.
I just can't get over him. I broke up with him last Saturday and EVERY night I dream about him-- us getting back together, arguing, or being happy together. I know he doesn't want me back because he HASN'T called or anything. I can still smell him (in a good way, lol), I can't get his kisses out of my head or the way he held me or the laughs we had, and especially his smile. This is my first heartbreak it SURE hurts a lot. I'm SO SICK of love songs, every song reminds me of him. I'm athletic and try to stay busy, but nothing is working. I do NOT want to talk to any other guys because I'm not over him/I'm scared of getting hurt again. I don't know what to do!
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I Feel Stuck. What Should i do?
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:08 pm
Ive liked this girl for a really long time, all through school since middle school and now at the end of HS, but she doesn't like me back and i know this for a fact so why can't i let it go and move on? I try and try but something has a hold on me. What should i do? I know i should find someone else but its hard.
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Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 9:35 pm
ok well. me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago, i ended it... i was prob the best girlfriend i could ever be.. like not to sound cocky of myself. we had been fighting for awhile about stuff, like he one time kissed a girl so cheated on me, and then other things "rumors"were told to me along our relationship.. that might have or might have not been true. Either way im not a stupid girl, so eventually i ended it. I wont lie, ususaly when we were together i could def tell how much he loved me, and some things he did for me... but a couple months ago before our relationship ended.. he had been drinking a lot, and it bothered me so much, causehe would drink everyday and somtimes by himself.. idk, so when i broke up with him he got w...
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Thinking about someone else?? (bisexuals)
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 7:52 pm
16/f me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now. i love her and she loves me, but recently i met this girl 12/f and we hung out everyday this week. i cant stop thinking about her. she hugged me the otherday and i just melted away, now i cant stop thinking about that too! my gf met her too, we met her at the same time and she thinks shes cool.i dont understand why i cant stop thinking about someone who is 4 years younger then me and im not single!! what do you think i should do??? ps im sorry but i dont wanna tell my gf... thats kinda out of the question. thankssss
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Should I REALLY get involved?
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 7:18 pm
Thanks in advance for those helped in my former quetions & this one!
Also sorry about it being so long it's the full story!
Kyle crushing him for a year now.
Back in Dec '08 he said “I'm not ready for a girlfriend, I don't like you that way, I'm sorry I only wanna be friends. Are we okay?” those were his exsact words! They still bother me a little. Me & everyone I know are home-schooled we all get together for bowling on Wensdays & other advents. Last Wensday me & my bff Sara agreed we'd "make" each other talk to your crushs next Wensday(22nd) I've kinda night-mares since we agreed to this about him not wanting near me ever again. Since late Feb '09 he starting acting more polite(op...
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how does he feel about me? what should i do?
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 6:02 pm
15/f/uk
So there's this guy I like (let's call him A). He started hanging around with our friend group about a month and a half ago. The day we met, A talked to me quite a bit, made eye contact with me. The next day, everyone was saying that he thought I was really hot. However, he did have a girlfriend (G) at this point. One night after that, we were all out, a bunch of people, and it was dark and A came up to me and asked if I wanted to sit on his skateboard with him. Whenever someone asked him about G, he always acted really disinterested.
From then on, A would always smile and talk to me if he saw me at school, as well as high fiving me, staring at me a lot, and doing things like making me wear his hat. Ou...
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Mixed Feelings
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 5:36 pm
15/F
Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months ago yesterday. And for those 9 months I feel like im the ONLY ONE trying to make any effort keeping us together. For example im usually the one to call him I call him when I wake up and before I go to sleep. I see him over the weekends and sometimes at my house during the week. I think the reason he doesnt call me so much is because my parents told me I cant see him so I have to keep our relationship a complete secret from my family for 9 months. He says he loves me but I mean I talk to him maybe 3 times a day MAX and maybe 5 mins each if even that. And he says stuuff like this when I call "Hey , yeah Im doing chores right now ill call you when im done."...
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cheating? sorry its long!
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 1:36 pm
Alright so this was 2 months ago, me (15/f) and my basically almost boyfriend (16/m) were at a hockey game for our highschool, and after it he said he was staying at a friends house, well i got a weird feeling but i trusted him. The next day after my basketball game, i get a text from his friend saying its coming directly from my boyfriend that he made out with a nother girl, but he was super drunk. I hear different things all the time, it was his fault, it was the girls, it was his friends fault, but it still makes me feel terrible and ugly and useless and makes me want to vomit just thinking about it. And when i do think about it, i just wanna cry and get mad at my boyfriend cause it bugs me. I could never do something like that to him, ...
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