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the ex
So I have veen talking to this guy and we are pretty much together but havent made if official. Well he up in disappeard for a week he finally called sayin he worked a lot the past week and that he found out he might be a daddy. The girl is like a month in a half pregnant which was before me and him so I am not gonna judge him for it. But this girl is only like 17 still in high school she told him she would get an abortion but he said if its his he dont want her to. She thinks that because shes pregnant and its supposed to be his they are gonna be together but he wants to be with me. He idea is for her to have it then try and get full custody because she doesnt really want it unless shes with him. How should I take this?
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Oh boy, that's really not a good spot to be in.
You know, I know its a new relationship and all that. I know you probably really like this guy too.
But I'm going to have to advise you to back off for a while.
He may be very sincere about wanting to be with you, but you know what? If he really wants a baby that bad, he is going to want to spend time with her while she is pregnant. It is an emotional time, even for guys. And in all honesty, he needs to be there to support her.
Nothing may happen between them, but since your relationship is so new, it will be very difficult for you to trust him, I think.
So my advice will be to maybe hold off a dating relationship until you see how this plays out.
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