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Can't Get Over Him


Question Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 10:59 pm

Ugh. He was perfect, but ended up cheating on me with his ex.

I just can't get over him. I broke up with him last Saturday and EVERY night I dream about him-- us getting back together, arguing, or being happy together. I know he doesn't want me back because he HASN'T called or anything. I can still smell him (in a good way, lol), I can't get his kisses out of my head or the way he held me or the laughs we had, and especially his smile. This is my first heartbreak it SURE hurts a lot. I'm SO SICK of love songs, every song reminds me of him. I'm athletic and try to stay busy, but nothing is working. I do NOT want to talk to any other guys because I'm not over him/I'm scared of getting hurt again. I don't know what to do!

What should I do? I just want to be done with him.


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TLBSANDIEGO answered Monday April 20 2009, 8:23 pm:
Ok my best advice for you is that it will take time to get those thinks out of your head it will not happen over night.You need to keep thinking of other things to keep you busy.I know when i broke up with my first love, i went through the same thing.The love songs and the romance movies all made me said.After awhile it all went away and i was ready to give my heart again.Be patient it will work out.Good luck feel free to send me a message if you have any more questions....

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mandy3232 answered Monday April 20 2009, 8:20 pm:
If you want to be done with him cut yourself off from him for good. Delete his number, his myspace, his facebook, messages you guys had together, pictures you had together. Dont let yourself change because of this guy. Go out and enjoy yourself do what you normally do. Act strong around him even if you are about to break. Act like you are better then him and you are obviously he cheated on you, you cant get worst then that. Hes low. You need to go on with life,do things that keep your mind off him ; there is other fish in the sea(;

Hope I helped(:
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chrissibug answered Monday April 20 2009, 8:18 pm:
to get over him you gotta make your self happy like go get your nails done go out with the girl get a membership at the gym do somthing for your self then youll fine a nice guys along the way rember thier better men out thier then jerks if he cheated on you then he like skanky sluts and your better then that your a lady and you no that go get your hair done go to college alot of women have made thier life better to ignore men this what you need to do let them chase you because men that chase women are the ones they want to stay with i understand but just take a break from men if you dont want any but that dosnt mean you have to stop you can always date some dosnt mean you have to marry them some times you gotta date men to find them my friend found her husband online i found my boyfriend online try older men thier not jerks as younger men that are older understand they want a women they use to be the user the player but as they get oder they understand but some youge men understand to just be a lady look up how to be a lady walk in heels be graceful dainty classy real men like this and youll find that man that will open the door for you take you out go traviling trust me alot of sex theripy has help i been thier done that hope this helps have fun.

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