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confusedd!
I go to high school, and I've known this guy that i like for about a year. (sorry for another 'about a guy question'). He had been going out with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, but during the last half a year they barely even spoke to each other. Anyway, he and i are really close- people always assume we're going out (even his girlfriend got mad at us for spending so much time together). But, he's also a really big flirt, so sometimes i cant really tell if hes into me- some days he'll talk to me constantly, and others he'll just talk to me once shortly, even though im there (for the whole day).
I cant tell what's going on and if im honest, im not really prepared to just go up to him and ask him if he likes me (or tell him that i like him)
any advice?
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it seems to me like this quy is confusedd.
he obviously still has feelinqs for his qirlfriend. but there may be a possibility that he also likes you . hes probably just holdinqq on to whatt was instead of lettinqq qo of his qirlfriendd & he probably likes you because you are there for him or remindd him of what him & his qirlfriendd usedd to be .
so what im tryinqq to say is, i think he is still in love with his qirlfriendd & if anythinqq [not to be rude] you are a reboundd qirl . & if youre not now you will be. people who qett outt of lonqq relationships have emotional baqqaqee & itt is best nott to qet into anythinqq serious withh them because they arent really as or rational as they'll usually be .
jUSt tRYiNG tO BE tRUtHFUl . "/
hope i helpeddd (:
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Well it sounds like you like him and he likes you. (especially if he spends that much time with you, that his gf noticed). So one day when your talking just be like "hey so how are you and your gf??" and then he will tell you and as the convo goes on just flirt with him a little bit, if he flirts back he most likely likes you. and he will be able to tell if you like him. And on those days that he doesnt talk to you a lot, talk to him, dont make him do everything, (most guys are lazy) haha and then if something happens with him and his gf move in =] Hope i helped & good luck!
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To be honest, you shouldn't do anything while he has a girlfriend. It's not fair to her, & I doubt you'd like it if someone did something like that to you. I'm not trying to be rude when I say that, though. There's only one way I know that you can go about it, which is just ask him. If you can't do it face to face, maybe you could do it by email, message, text, or IM. There's really no other way to do it, because if you have someone else ask for you he might view that as a little immature & think you're not very confident.
If you do talk to him (hopefully after he breaks up with his girlfriend), just ask him how he feels about you. It may be hard, but the worst that could happen is he doesn't feel the same, & it's not the end of the world. Tell him the way he acts towards you confuses you.
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