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places to hang out with my girlfriend
Posted Thursday June 11 2009, 6:41 am
13/m
OK so last Thursday i went to the movies with my girlfriend and another one of her friends and i asked her if she wanted to do something again this weekend but im not sure if she wants to go to the movies again so what are some things we could do. we live in a small city but not anything with huge skyscrapers and like 10 giant shopping centers just one small one which sucks cause theres hardly anything to do.
so im looking for just any help at all thanks alot
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i dont know what to do. :(
Posted Thursday June 11 2009, 2:27 am
My boyfriend and i broke up.
we broke up on sunday and it was really weird how he explained it. We broke up because his mom thought we were geting to close. He said that we could still be friends, hang out., adn go on dates. He said that we could still do everything we were doing whenever we were dating but we aren't going to be dating. He still tells me he loves me and calls me babe. BUT! he hasn't called me in 2 days nothing at all. idk what to do. he broke my heart but i still want to be his friend but not with benifits im not a slut..
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is he a player to
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 11:21 pm
josh decided he would choose between me and kelsey but he would need a couple days because he liked us both. i finally talked to him and he said he was sticking with kelsey...so once again he led me on and broke my heart! its so hard to find the right boy, should i just give up on him?
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How do you plan a surprise party for a 22 year old guy?
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 10:55 pm
My boyfriend is in the military, and he's coming home for a short leave in a couple of weeks. I was thinking that since his birthday is in a couple of months, and he hasn't been around to celebrate it with his friends since high school, I'd throw him a surprise party.
Here's the catch: I've never planned a party on my own before!
I know I need to get a hold of his friends, which I should be able to do through Facebook, but I've got some other issues. There will be about 20 people at the party.
1) What kind of food should I prepare, and how much? I'd like to go a little bit beyond just pizza. We do have a barbecue (but a small backyard), so that is an option.
2) Alcohol: how muc...
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Letting Go
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 10:25 pm
I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both.
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booty call.. can it turn into a relationship?
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 7:37 pm
Hi,
I am 18 years old. I have known this guy for more than a year. He is turning 22 soon. We started hooking up right away but we were never in relationship. We see each other almost every weekend but only at night just to have sex. Last week he asked me to hang out and it was not even 7 pm but i said No. I believe now he thinks that i am just using him for sex and he knows that i hook up with other guys besides just him. I know I would never have sex with anyone else but I am not sure if I like him. I get jealous all the time I see him around other girls, but it works out because I always with other guys too. Is there a way this can turn into a real relationship? How can I do that?
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I don't want to get in too fast.
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 5:23 pm
I haven't had a boyfriend for 2 years since my last big break up. A few hook ups here and there, but nothing serious with anyone I really liked. Well, things are progressing with a crush I've had for years. We were cuddling on the couch last night, and my problem is that I haven't stopped thinking about him all day. I promised myself I wouldn't, but I texted him this afternoon and asked him to hang out again tonight. I don't want to rush things and ruin everything. How do I keep myself from overwhelming him too quickly?
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My Ex and Me AGAIN
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 3:19 pm
ok well read this only if you have read my other question the subject of my other question is "My Ex and Me" once you read that then read this but anyways
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=564942
well i wrote this message to Emo and it said that i was sorry that it seemed like i avoided him on Sunday when i last saw him and that i just didn't know what to expect... and that i miss him and still love him and i told him to take care of himself and stop getting hurt (he tore his ACL so he had to get surgery and so when i saw him 6/7/09 he had a leg brace on)(he lives half way across the state and is comin back in July) anyways he wrote back and his exact words were:
"y don't i ...
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I think I'm just his best friend. :(
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 1:42 pm
hello!(Sorry, it's long please read!)
13/f
Well, the guy I really care for(Joey) dated my friend(Tay), she wasn't right for him at all. At the beginning he dated me than,he started liking my friend and they both backstabbed me and went out. I warned him about my friend she liked other guys when they went out, and she asked someone out WHILE dating Joey. The other day she broke up with him, because she likes someone else and she asked him out. Joey was devastated and was really sorry for not believing me.Now, everything I predicted that would happen, HAPPENED It make me feel awful. Well, Joey asked me to go to the movies with him yesterday. (I don't know as a friend or as a date)I couldn't come because my mom would lik...
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My wife is confused
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 12:38 pm
Well I will give everyone the short story cause this is a very complicated situation. My wife and I got married at 19, joined the military, had a child at 22 and having been living a very happy and healthy marriage for 7 years. We own a home, are finacially comfortably, have all the materialistic things that one would want in life. And we also have a 3 year old daughter, and planning on more children. Also are families are very close, and our mother's became best friends. Basically we have achieved the "American Dream." Recently my wife has started to feel like she missed out on something. We reached the ultimate goal in life, but she feels that she maybe got there to fast. Grew up to quickly in a sense. Well I am a good husband a...
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Lack of Hygeine
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 11:47 am
I am a 52-year-old woman married to a 54-year-old man. Last year we "semi-retired" from well-paying corporate jobs to become long-haul truck drivers. The intent was to see the country, spend time together, and sock a lot of $$ into our retirement fund. Over the course of the past year my husband has stopped bathing, dental care, etc. He is attractive, witty and the love of my life, however, I am finding it revolting to be near him and he thinks it's my problem. Am I missing something here???
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sucking at making moves on my girlfriend
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 4:58 am
13/m and no offence but please dont say i'm too young for a girlfriend ha ha
ok so i've been going out with this girl for about a week now and i cant even hold her hand without being nervous so i havent like walked with her while holding hands i'm afraid it will ruin our relationship and shes a great girl so i dont want to lose her so does anyone have any tips
btw we went to the movies the other night and i stuck my arm around her but even that was crazy haha i dont know whether its like things that happened with one of my girlfriends last year cause her and me and a few other friends went to a movie(this is a different girl) and i tried to stick my arm around her but then she just pulled it off her arm it was funny an...
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sigh... should I break up?
Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 3:18 am
19/m
Me and my girlfriend (18) have been going out for about 10 months. She wants to move at the end of the summer. While I originally told her im on board with it I have had feelings of not wanting to do this.. but I'm not sure what to do. We argue quite often but other times we are great but I feel like in the long run I would not be as happy. I have been feeling this way for about a month now but I have not been able to tell her this because I have needed time to confirm that this is truely the way i feel, and I feel incredibly horrible about it. A big problem that I see is that she never wants me to go on trips with just me and my friends, without her for a few days. I have tried twice to do so and she became extremely up...
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Love?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 11:30 pm
how do you know if you are in love with someone?
i cant stop thinking about him. and cannot ever stay mad at him even though he is a jerk alot of the time.
and i think that its only one way..im feel more for him than he does for me...ALOT more.
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To tell the truth or not?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 6:57 pm
When I was 16 i began dating my first boyfriend that i later lost my virginity to. Just before my 19th birthday we called it quits and i became very sexually active with different guys outside of our small town. Last year i met an amazing guy that i fell head over heels for. Wanting to be the polar opposite from our friends i deliberately gave the impression that i was a sweet innocent young lady who was very reserved. It's been over a year of dating this guy and I am now 22 years of age. I've been checked for STDS and VD and came out clean. My boyfriend and I are living together and deeply in love, but he still thinks I've only been with 5 guys including himself!!! When in reality my 'number' is around double that closer to 10 or 12...
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boyfriends birthday?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 6:46 pm
hello!
My bfs birthday isn't for another month but I really want to have something fun planned. He will be turning 19. Does anyone have any ideas of things to do for his birthday? How about gift ideas I know you don't know him... But he is a pretty chill guy. He'll be happy with anything. Thanks for the help in advance! :)
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Do Guys Like When Girls Take Charge?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 5:13 pm
Do guys like it when the girl takes charge sometimes? .. like where to hang out for example.
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Is he just using me for sex?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 5:05 pm
Hi, I'm 17/f and there's this guy that I've been talking to on and off for about 4 years now, and during this time we've both gone out with other people but we always go back to eachother for some strange reason, though we've never actually gone out. I recently lost my virginity to him and now we talk almost everyday, and we do other stuff occasionally, like go out to eat, and we always talk, never about sex or anything, but he's always asking me to come over and now almost everytime we see eachother we have sex. I'm pretty sure he doesn't talk to other girls, and I don't talk to other guys either but I can't tell whether he's just using me for sex or if he really does like me. I really like him and I always have, and we've talked about it...
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Is It Hot for a Girl to be Muscular?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 4:30 pm
It is hot for an athletic type girl to have a really nice body? I've been told I have a 'sick' stomach (sick as in like crazy good ya know). And I've been told that my arms are jacked. Is this hot, or not right cause I'm a girl? I'm 16.
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what should i do about this girl?
Posted Tuesday June 9 2009, 4:12 pm
ok this girl is my friend, on of my good friends and we went out twice but each time we do she leaves me for her ex. But i don't know what to do. the first time we just went back to being friends and things even though it ended badly with all this complication and stuff but i forgave her and it wasnt her fault and whatever. but this time she promised me it wouldn happen etc. but it did. so i feel kind of like an idiot. so i dont know should i just forgive her agian because i want to, like shes my friend,or atleast supposed to be but a part of me thinks well why should i be there as a friend for her after all this.Kind of like well why should she get the benefit of my friendship kind of thing....if that makes any sense. what do you guys think?
thanks
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