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I don't want to get in too fast.
I haven't had a boyfriend for 2 years since my last big break up. A few hook ups here and there, but nothing serious with anyone I really liked. Well, things are progressing with a crush I've had for years. We were cuddling on the couch last night, and my problem is that I haven't stopped thinking about him all day. I promised myself I wouldn't, but I texted him this afternoon and asked him to hang out again tonight. I don't want to rush things and ruin everything. How do I keep myself from overwhelming him too quickly?
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i think you should take your chances on this dude because if you really like him that you can forget about the other dude and by the way call him its better then texting because you can tell someone is lying if you talk to them you can't by just texting....hope everything goes well bye:)
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I certainly don't think you're rushing into anything. Hanging out is OK! It's perfectly fine.
If you're worried about taking things too fast, just limit yourself to how often you hang out, and to what you do when you hang out.
But hanging out and cuddling definitely isn't rushing anything.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Overwhelming HIM too quickly. You're doing a good job of overwhelming yourself. Let all of these good feelings be just what they are-good feelings. Don't worry. If he is spending time cuddling with you he is already serious.
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hey there =]
im sure your not rushing things and he probably likes you loads too
the next time you see him maybe explain how you much you like him and sorry if your coming off a little too strong?
which I doubt you are judging by the sounds of you both cuddling on the couch =]
after the next time you hang out leave it to him to orginise the one after that,that way your not the one coming off as overly keen let him wait and do the asking.
and dont panic if he doesnt straight away guys are like that,he will probably be wondering why your not asking him!
then hel get the guts to do it himself.
you have nothing to worry about though your just excited About the idea of a new boyfriend and relationship,and im sure your not going to overwhelm or scare him off =]
good luck hope I helped in anyway
<3
Jess
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