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josh decided he would choose between me and kelsey but he would need a couple days because he liked us both. i finally talked to him and he said he was sticking with kelsey...so once again he led me on and broke my heart! its so hard to find the right boy, should i just give up on him?
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"So once again he led me on..."
He's done this before?
This guy is NOT worth it. Definitely give up on him. You should find someone who won't put you up to a choice against another girl.
There are plenty of guys who will treat you right, unlike Josh.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I don't even understand why you got in the middle of it anyways. Obviously he liked her more... He was dating her.
You cannot get in the middle of people's relationships because it's only gonna leave you fucked over and looking stupid.
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First of all if you have to put yourself in a position where a boy needs to choose between you or another girl, you are wrong...
A boy that cares about you, won't have to choose between you or another girl. A boy that truly cares about you will chase you not the other way around. You shouldn't put yourself in a position where you are waiting to be chosen by a boy, how dare he.
Please don't bother with him. He had the option of using you and if he didn't then his loss. You need a boy that is going to chase you, that is going to ask you to be his girlfriend not the other way around.
Your young you will meet a great guy, just be patient. If Josh decided on Kelsey then let them be happy, but PLEASE don't ask him about you two dating nor be with him if he and Kelsey have problems..........Act like you don't care a bit and move on, you'll see he will regret it "BIG TIME" :)
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Are you saying that resident piece of shit Josh is "the right boy"? If so, you need to reevaluate your standards as far as who the relationship material people are.
Judging from Josh's behavior, you're probably pretty young, because mature guys wouldn't do that. At this age, you'll either have to deal with the shit that gets thrown at you or give up on dating for now.
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give up on him. if he needed a few days to chose between you and another girl then he doesnt care. drop him dont let him drop you
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Yes.
It sounds like he has led you on before. And this time, he has outright said that he wants to stay with the other girl.
While this can be very tough, at the end of the day don't you want a guy who wants YOU? It's not good for your self-esteem to hang around and wait for a guy who has chosen another girl.
In a relationship, you want to feel special and wanted. It doesn't sound like this guy can offer that to you.
If you choose to move on, you are opening yourself up to meeting a guy who really, really likes you!
Best of luck.
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Of course you should give up on him. You shouldn't have been waiting around and being the other girl and letting the guy decide. Next time, you tell the guy to make up his mind because you're not gonna wait around on a guy. You have to stand up for yourself or you're always going to get pushed around and chosen last. He didn't 'lead you on' he was probably just needing a push in the right direction, but you didn't give it to him. You waited around for him.
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