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Love?
how do you know if you are in love with someone?
i cant stop thinking about him. and cannot ever stay mad at him even though he is a jerk alot of the time.
and i think that its only one way..im feel more for him than he does for me...ALOT more.
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You know when you are in love with some one when.
You smile every time you see them.
They give you butterflies.
When they're sad you're sad.
You never stop thinking of them.
You care about their feelings and actions.
And even though they are flawed you still think they are perfect. : )
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Someone sent this to me a long time ago and I think it helps a lot. You didn't specify how old you are but don't be discouraged by people who say you are too young to be in love.
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them.
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because he kisses you or holds your hand?
It isn't love, its low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes you heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship.
Do you tell them everyday that they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give your favorite things to them?
It isn't love, its charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry their pain even though your strong?
Than it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinded incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and keeps you there?
Than it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Would you give them your heart, your life and your death?
Then it's love.
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Honestly no one can tell you when your in love. A lot of people will try to but im telling you that when your in love you will know. And by what you described you sound like your getting there, or maybe you are, im not going to be the one to tell you that.
Hope i helped =]
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Real love isn't about how you feel about a person, it's about how that other person makes you feel about yourself. You know you're in love with someone when you see them and you can't stop smiling....When something happens, good or bad, and you can't wait to talk to them about it because you know they are going to celebrate your victories and help you accept your losses.
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Love, real love, is a two way street. It requires a lot of depth of knowing the other person, mutual acceptance and support, etc. If someone is being a jerk a lot of the time - however you react to it - it's not really a sign that something longterm and healthy is on the cards.
Love is also best when both people feel the same way. Of course in a long relationship (we're talking years and years here) it is normal for feelings to shift, change, and grow over time.
Relationships where one person cares more for the other, it can open the way to that person being taken advantage of. You will be doing a lot to keep this guy happy because you care for him - but if you aren't getting the same sort of treatment in return, something is wrong.
And if you guys aren't dating yet, but you are thinking about him a lot - take some time to get to know him, to let him get to know you, and to see what happens. Remember to use your head as well as your heart.
I wish you the best.
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Want a fun way to find out? Stare each other in the eyes without looking away for 20 seconds, no looking away for even half a second. If you can do this, then there is probably nothing there. If one does look away then there might be something there (assuming that nothing outside caused the person to look away).
While this may not be your case, some people have an awkward time of showing their feelings. Him being a jerk (i'm assuming just teasing) might be his way of coping. If not, stay away from the guy.
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RED FLAG! RED FLAG! RED FLAG!
Love is blind but heed the warning bells sweetie, if you think he is a jerk some of the time, he more than likely is a jerk!
Stay away from him or you will have a shattered heart. If he is not showing the same interest in you, he's not interested and if he does hook up with you, it will only be to his own end and that is no good.
Keep well clear of this guy.
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