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My Ex and Me AGAIN
ok well read this only if you have read my other question the subject of my other question is "My Ex and Me" once you read that then read this but anyways
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well i wrote this message to Emo and it said that i was sorry that it seemed like i avoided him on Sunday when i last saw him and that i just didn't know what to expect... and that i miss him and still love him and i told him to take care of himself and stop getting hurt (he tore his ACL so he had to get surgery and so when i saw him 6/7/09 he had a leg brace on)(he lives half way across the state and is comin back in July) anyways he wrote back and his exact words were:
"y don't i come back, n we can be together, then you can take care of me?"
see how he kind of expects me to give in and take him back right away well i wanna change that so i am the one controlling this stuff more instead of him saying stuff like "we ARE getting back together" and "i AM going to take care of him" so i have been thinkin that i would make him work for it this time so he knows that i don't really need him that i can have any guy i want....but i do also want to get back with him so do you think this is good?????? like how i planned this out?
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It is definitely good that you realized that he was trying to control the relationship and you really want to do something about it. Showing him that you are a desirable woman will definitely change his perspective. If you guys go out and you find someone to flirt with you, it may open his eyes a little if he sees it for himself. Don't let him make decisions for you but make them yourself. For example, if he asks where do you want to go out tonight, don't say anywhere you want to or i don't know; you have to take control by picking a place. If yu show that you are independent and don't need by showing him you can live without him, he will not take advantage of the situation.
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