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I think I'm just his best friend. :(


Question Posted Wednesday June 10 2009, 1:42 pm

hello!(Sorry, it's long please read!)

13/f
Well, the guy I really care for(Joey) dated my friend(Tay), she wasn't right for him at all. At the beginning he dated me than,he started liking my friend and they both backstabbed me and went out. I warned him about my friend she liked other guys when they went out, and she asked someone out WHILE dating Joey. The other day she broke up with him, because she likes someone else and she asked him out. Joey was devastated and was really sorry for not believing me.Now, everything I predicted that would happen, HAPPENED It make me feel awful. Well, Joey asked me to go to the movies with him yesterday. (I don't know as a friend or as a date)I couldn't come because my mom would like to come , and she was working. So, my mom said maybe this weekend and joey agreed to that. He also told me that my family should come over to his house for a cookout sometime, so our family can meet.Well, I really like him. I'm not sure if he's starting to like me or if I'm just a best friend? I really helped him out threw this, he was really hurt.On My space he put me in his top, but Tay was the first person,he told me he still likes her, it' hard not to. This hurts me because I really like him, and care for him and I know I can treat him better. What I need to know is do you people think we could ever be in a relationship again? I know it will take time, but do you think we could..or will I just be a best friend to him?

Please help out!! Thanks for reading!!

Bye!


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Advicelady6798 answered Thursday June 11 2009, 2:17 pm:
He feels comfortable with you and trusts you completely now. He may still like his ex but it definitely seems like your relationship will develop into something bigger eventually. Like you said, "give it time" and it will happen. He will realize that the perfect person for him was standing right next to him the whole time. I wouldn't tell him how you feel until you think he has completely gotten over his ex. Watch myspace, if you see yourself moving into that number 1 spot then you know when to make your first move.

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*Kate* answered Wednesday June 10 2009, 9:59 pm:
He might see you as a close friend since you dated and seemed to remain friends while he was dating other girls. On top of that you were there when he had to break up with your friend. But on the other hand he might realize that he likes you and is sorry he dated your friend. I think you should take your time and not rush things. You need to kind of gauge how he feels about you, before you try to jump into a relationship.

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