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suicidal thoughts: 57 and just want the pain to stop


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 3:29 pm

I went through a divorce, lost my home, lost my job, and declared bankruptcy in the last year. I am 57 and feel totally hopeless. I am on medication but I don't think it is helping. I am suicidal but haven't act ed on it. Deep down I know I don't want to die; I just want the pain to stop.!! Any suggestions please?

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Physically abusive brother with bad temper


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 3:22 pm

My brother and I don't always get along, but when we do, we're good friends. As siblings will do, we pick on each other all the time. I usually laugh his comments off, they don't bother me, but if I say anything to him, he flies into a rage, and starts attacking me. And occasionally he may have no reason to attack me, but he does anyway. When we were younger it was okay, because even though I'm a girl, I was always taller than him, but now he's put up weight and is at least twice as strong as I am. I have often received injuries from him; a cut all along my hairline when he banged my head against a door frame, a bruise on my upper-abdomen when he kicked me in the stomach, a bruise on my ear, bite marks on my legs, he knocked one of my baby ...

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Why is cultural heritage so important when it just encourages xenophobia?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 2:36 pm

I've lived in different countries in different continents from a young age, and I'm very grateful. Growing up, I used to not understand where things like racism or xenophobia came from, because all places felt like home to me. It's not something fixed, like a city or country, it's about being anywhere with people you love. So I'm always eager to learn and experience different cultures, but it hurts that when someone is only used to living with one specific culture, they don't want it to be changed in any way. I used to think xenophobia was only about so-called "white man" countries, but it exists world wide. In Japan, if you don't have Japanese heritage and don't "look" a certain way, you're not welcomed. And there's sti...

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whats wrong? is this cancer?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 2:14 pm

I have a random bruise on my spine and have had headaches I vomited blood and coughed blood and been feeling dizzy and I'm 16 when I was 5 my twin brother died of cancer

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Why


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 1:51 pm

Why do I feel like I need a boyfriend. I wish I could enjoy the rest of my childhood without worrying about it. Whoever has the answers please tell me. 12 f

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I had a nose accident...


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 1:36 pm

The other night I was at my boyfriends house playing with his German shepherd. Long story short, the dog fell on my face, directly on my nose. He's a big dog, and I'm only 4'10'' so he hurts me a lot. I just wanted to know if it might be broken or not. My nose has been red ever since, it hurts and bleeds from time to time, but no bruising (yet). When it does bleed, it's only for a few seconds, maybe a minute or two. It's swollen and my eyes really hurt, especially when i move them or look at light. Also, I have TMJ so it's been messing with my jaw too. When i rub my nose, it clicks and crunches, then sometimes that makes it bleed.

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I need advice I'm completely confused and need reassurance?!?!


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 1:31 pm

So I had boyfriend and well I really liked him but then a boy that I had a mayjor crush on my 7th and 8th grade year says he likes me deeply to.... And the other guy is a real jerk but a part of wish things would have went better he acts like a little kid and it irratates me :/ he kinda screwed me over in the process I just need some advice on what I should do???

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Getting him horney


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 1:14 pm

Ok I'm 19 and my boyfriend
Is 20.
We has been dating since we were I'm middle school.
We are in love.
We have not had sex and are both virgins.
I'm having trouble making him horney and making him hard
How could I make him hard and horney
And make him cum
Through text?
Without him watching porn.

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How do I regain his interest?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 10:12 am

F/16
My boyfriend for about 7 months and he doesn't seem to be interested as much anymore. He's not affectionate like he used to be, he never really wants to spend time with me, he always used to say "yes" when I had plans for us but now he says "I'll let you know" he never texts me, I used to wake up with good morning texts and he never does that... I text him first every day but he seems like he can't be bothered with me anymore, the way he's texting. I've asked time and time if there's anything at all wrong and he says there's nothing, we have been arguing a lot lately because of this, I say he's changed. I say I'm done, but I come back and ask him for another chance, and it seems like it's my fault, but is it?...

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Engaged after one month of dating


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 7:21 am

Hi.

My best friend moved to Australia this year in April 2012. She had a thing with this guy over there but that didn't last long.

So about a month ago she told me she was dating someone else. She's 28 & the guy is 19. They started dated 17 November. (I only know the date cause of the facebook anniversary date thing) & on 20th December she messaged me saying he proposed and she said yes.

I'm not jealous or anything. I just think she's making a really big mistake. They've only been dating a month & also living together as her lease was ending at her other place. I don't know why she didn't just move back to her aunties house.

Do you think I should say something to her? I...

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will i be fired from walmart for taking care of my sick wife?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 6:43 am

My wife Is vêry sick and in the hospital have worked for walmart only two weeks wé desperatly need this oppertunity ive already had to miss two days due to My wifes sickness she Needs me today would i ne fired


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is it normal to have discharge or is it meant to be dry??


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 6:33 am

im 18 and female i have never done anything except making out i have recently started going out with this guy and he has tried to finger me but i stopped him. its not because im uncomfortable being fingered its because i get alot of vaginal discharge and i dont want him to be grossed out! is it normal to have discharge or is it meant to be dry?? please help

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Can N10 or nitrosun 10 kill a person


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 5:42 am

Can N10 or nitrosun 10 kill a person ?? If so then how many of it !! Help ???

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Do i need to remove my tonsils


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 5:16 am

I have a bad sore throat it hurts every time I sallow. Also I get a sharp pain in my ears. I have no fever or any other symptoms. I have taken some medicine to see if it will go away but it doesn't. Do I need to have my tosils removed?

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sex


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 4:25 am

i am from kenya, i bled when doing sex after 3 years of child birth will it occur the second time and is it normal


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I don't know what to do about the guy I love.


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 4:01 am

I'm in 10th grade and I've like the same guy since 6th grade. He dated this girl 2 years ago and he claimed to be in love with her. Even though we weren't technically dating, we acted like we were and everything was fine. He poured his heart out to me and told me he loved me and he has only done that with one girl before (his ex that he loved) he's not a people person and doesn't like to deal with problems, but he always deals with mine. One day he told his brother that he was finally going to make us official but he didn't. One day he stopped talking to me out of no where. Why did he stop talking to me? Did I get played? Should I get over him?

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where do you reach your bf?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 3:11 am

could you please temme that? itll really help me in appriaching a guy who is 5 11. plleasse? where do you reach him?

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A woman loves me and i love her but i am sick and i have ED!!


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 2:22 am

I have a woman who says she still loves me and i still love her but she doesn't if she wants to take a chance with and in 3 years i die from illness. I haven't even told her that i have severe ED. Please help if you can! I am a 47 y/o man she is a 38y/o woman.

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How do I STAY motivated?


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 12:49 am

19/f

I'm a sophomore in college and I'm finding it very difficult to motivate myself to work out and eat healthy. I'm 5'3 and a little over 100 lbs, so it's not that I'm trying to lose weight. But I know that I am not in shape. I never stick to a work out routine and I find it really hard to eat healthy because 1) healthy food isn't cheap! and 2) it's easier to grab fast food because it's cheap and doesn't require any meal planning. Sometimes I'll see pics of girls with really toned abs or legs and I'll workout for maybe 3 days then I quit. Also, I don't really know how to get into a healthy eating routine because I don't know what foods to buy that are cheap, healthy, and will last me a while so that I'm not constantly buyin...

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desicion on staying with someone or not: they have cheated on me multiple times with multiple people


Posted Saturday December 29 2012, 12:26 am

What do you do when you're in love with someone so much that you you don't ever want to loose them. When you know they can be happier with someone else but they choose you. But when they choose you they choose you with tears in thier eyes. Because they know they could of been happier with someone else but they still choose you. And then you feel as of the whole world has fallen on top of you. Because he chose you with tears in his eyes and not joy. But that person tells you they love you. and you feel as if it's true. That person tells you they will change even tho they have told you that since the beggining. Even tho you've been together for over a year. But yet you still belive them. Even tho they been cheating on you since the start, mor...

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