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I don't know what to do about the guy I love.
I'm in 10th grade and I've like the same guy since 6th grade. He dated this girl 2 years ago and he claimed to be in love with her. Even though we weren't technically dating, we acted like we were and everything was fine. He poured his heart out to me and told me he loved me and he has only done that with one girl before (his ex that he loved) he's not a people person and doesn't like to deal with problems, but he always deals with mine. One day he told his brother that he was finally going to make us official but he didn't. One day he stopped talking to me out of no where. Why did he stop talking to me? Did I get played? Should I get over him?
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I decided to answer your question because I myself have been on the receiving end of this type of treatment. The first suggestion I have for you is to go up to him directly in person and ask him why he has stopped talking to you (it would be best if you could catch him alone or pull him to the side). Tell him how it made you feel when he stopped talking to you and remind him that he expressed those feelings for you right before he started to break off communication with you. In this plan of attack the point of it being in person is key because when you directly talk to him he can't just not respond and he can actually see the look of how hurt you are by what he has been doing. Again make sure you are alone or to the side because it's really not right to publicly air out your dirty laundry.
Another suggestion to do before that if outright asking him is too scary at first is to ask his close friends if you know them. If you are friends with one of his best friends ask them. If they know and say they can't tell you don't force it though. It's pressure enough to be trusted with private information and keeping it. If/when they tell you though the most it will do is prepare you for the unavoidable act of confronting this guy. Don't even mention asking the friend about it to the guy or hinting you know anything or it becomes a what he/she said spat. After you have confronted this fellow and find out the situation I would be more than happy to further help you if you need it so shoot me a message if you want. I hope this helped. Good luck :)
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