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Why do I feel like I need a boyfriend. I wish I could enjoy the rest of my childhood without worrying about it. Whoever has the answers please tell me. 12 f
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Okay, I used to always have that anxiety. Why? Because of the people around me. Your surroundings are influencing you feel the need of having a bf, but honestly, you don't need one. Trust me...they don't last in middle school. Enjoy your single life while you're young and think about having boyfriends around college or something :)
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Well I think that inside you are lonely and does not know what to do and need someone to guide you. Being alone is not good for your good soul and also i think that having a boyfriend will cheer you up
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I'm glad you asked this question. There is very little in this world that YOU HAVE TO DO.
YOU HAVE TO:
Go to school - that's the law
You have to obey the law - That is societies rules.
As a child you have to obey your parents and respect all adults.
Their may be a few more things you have to do but those are the biggies. Other than that you can be your own person and do as you please. I was very much my own person doing what I wanted not what others may have thought I should do. When friends said I HAD TO DO SOMETHING. I responded with an old saying. "THE ONLY THING I HAVE TO DO IS LIVE, DIE AND PAY TAXES AND THE LAST ONE IS OPTIONAL."
What this means is There are very few things that anyone must do. That we are all individuals and other than what is expected of us by society we are free to do as we please.
So if you do not want a boyfriend there is nothing that says YOU HAVE TO HAVE ONE. IF any of your friends get on you for not having one feel free to use the old saying I used. They may not understand it at first but it will cause them to back off.
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In today's society, it always seems glamorous to have a boyfriend. Especially at your age. You don't have to worry about it. But chances are friends you have are and it's rubbing off on you. If you don't really care to have one right now, then don't worry about it. You will date when you feel you are ready. But remember, if/when you do decide to start dating, if you're not ready to get intimate, always state that to your mate. Remember, no means no.
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