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crush


Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 4:28 am

i have never dated a girl before but i do consider myself bi because i have had crushes on girls and they really turn me on(havent dated a girl because i cant tell which girls arent straight and im too much of a coward to tell a girl im interested in her). well my manager just hired this new girl i have worked with the last four shifts and i think she is extremely cute! and i love her personality we click. i just dont know if she would ever consider dating a girl or if she has before. one reason i became interested in her is because i kind of get the vibe she is interested in me. im not sure but she always talks to me, wants to always be around me and when we talk she stares at me like a guy who is interested in me. i always catch her glanc...

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Does she like me? And how do I tell her?


Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 3:03 am

Basically, me and this girl have been talking off and on for a few months, but recently it's really picked up. Like texts, chat, or facebook status comments nearly every day now. I'm starting to really like her, and I'm curious if she likes me back. First question. She starts a lot of these conversations, so my first instinct is that she wouldn't be talking to me so much if she didn't kind of like me. Is that a good assumption? Second off, how do I even bring this up. Like do I just tell her that I like her? Or how could I do it subtly to kind of feel out what she's thinking too? Can you give me specific conversation starters please? Thanks a million!

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I kicked him...


Posted Saturday July 11 2009, 10:15 pm

Okay, well I wasn't really sure where to put this but uh here goes. So I'm 13/F and he was 14/M. He is an awesome friend but he's always been a perv. Anyway, he took it too far this time and I flipped out. We were walking in a group and some other guys that we were with were making fun of him about how he "can't get a girl" and he says "I can get any girl I want!" so he grabs me, pins me against a wall, and sticks his hand down my pants. I freaked and kicked him in the balls... He looked like he was in severe pain. I almost felt bad but not really cuz what did he expect? But now he's super pissed at me. I don't think he has a right! Does anyone else think I was out of line?

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chilling with ex boyfrennnnd


Posted Saturday July 11 2009, 6:03 pm

okay so recently i've been hanging out with my ex. things have been going pretty gooddd. i went over and we played catch outside and listened to music, it was chill and i think we both had fun :) he was doing things like hitting my butt (joking around not in a perverted way) then when i had to leave he asked if he could come with me and he asked his mom but she said no =/ (i heard him pretty much beg her and he was getting into an argument over it) so i left and he gave me a big hug. what do you guys think? we broke up about 3 months ago if that matters.

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How to start a relationship?


Posted Saturday July 11 2009, 5:17 pm

Alright, this seems like a really stupid question but I've never really been in a relationship before. I have a friend that recently I've begun to like in "that way." I'm somewhat getting signals that she may like me too. Anyway, what I'm asking is how do I go about talking to her about becoming my girlfriend? We hang out and stuff, so I'm not sure whether to just profess my feeling towards her which could get awkward, or ask her if she likes me, or what?

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My best friends break up and the bisexual guy


Posted Saturday July 11 2009, 2:46 pm

Im worried for my best friend because i dont know what advice to give her! My friend went out with her boyfriend for 5 months, they were friends for long time before that. They were great together, but he was so quiet, anti social. She'd put so much effort, and he never did, she had to make his choices for her, she had to decide what they'd do. She never got much affection. We went to a party with him and he just sat there, and did say anything. She didnt get a hello when we met him, and she never got a hug or a kiss. And its like that a lot with him.

Everyone was laughing saying omg, he never speaks and my friend felt unfortbale - embarrased because they were right. She loves him so much, and I know he loves her, but he nev...

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Jimmy <3


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 10:58 pm

Hey! 131/2 f (Long..i'm sorryy)

I met this awesome guy (Jimmy)last week at the public pool with my friend. We thought he was cute. ha ha :) He thought the same thing and we talked and everything we had fun together. After that day we started texting and talking on the phone and stuff like that. Well i found out that he liked me,and i was SOOO happy because i really like him to. Well we text each other and..he talks dirty. ha ha I also do.. but not LIKE he does, i just say makeout..and stuff like that but he wants to "Do" me. ha ha ;) Well i saw him again today at the pool..with his friend Erica (she's also my friend)i think he knew that i was going..because he didn't act like he was suprized that i was there. We...

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photoalbum?


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 3:36 pm

i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and i was wondering, if you were going to get a present from your girlfriend, would you want a photoalbum?

Guys, please answer truthfuly. And girls, id like past experiences or stuff. Thank you so much. Im so nervous he wont like it =[

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I can't tell,


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 2:05 pm

So I like this guy, Brad. I met him through school. He had just come from the beach and he wanted to hang out with me. I went on a date with him Wednesday night, and it was fun. But he didn't really do anything. Like the holding hands or put his arm around me thing. I started to think maybe he didn't like me? After the movie, he went to the bathroom and admitted he really had to go, haha. I'm kind of confused whether he does like me or just wants to be my friend. But at the same time, I think he DOES like me, because when he looks at me and talks to me, he has this tone in his voice that kind of reveals he at least thinks i'm attractive. But then, he only looks at my face when he talks to me, which is a plus. He also told me (through text) ...

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Boyfriend confusion


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 12:15 pm

Alright, so I need an outsiders point of view on this please.
I have been dating this guy for about a week now and he is the first boyfriend I’ve had in almost 3 years. My problem is, is that the guy I’m with now, he isn’t really romantic like when we first met back in Jan (before I was even his gf) and he doesn’t seem as into me but he claims that he is when I try to talk to him about how I feel and we fight about it. Now I will admit I have insecurity issues that I am constantly working on, but it’s different because ANY other boyfriend I’ve ever had treated me like a princess, like they adored me and put me up on a pedestal. They would call me every chance they got, they always wanted to be with me, they would even do ...

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different school


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 11:41 am

hey,
my parents just singed me up to go to trinity high school for grade 7 but I don't want to go cuz there is this guy I really really like. it's already been around 4 weeks of summer vacation and I have been upset ever since. do you think I should hang out with him, call him, or even think about him anymore?? I just don't know what to do!!! he is the sweetest guy ever. :(
~ emily ~ age 13 ~

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Treasure hunt


Posted Friday July 10 2009, 2:18 am

Alright, so I'm making a treasure hunt for my boyfriend who has a thing about pirates haha. But I need help thinking of clues and whatnot. Here are some ideas I have: first, I have a glass bottle that I'll put some sort of map in. I also was thinking I could work in a picture puzzle, a piece of brick that he gave me when we first started dating (haha, inside joke), candy kisses, something else pirate related, something video game, or pokemon related, a key, a bleach bottle (another inside joke), and finally a smore because it's leading him to my fire pit. So, does anyone have any ideas how I could make clues out of any of those items? Any input is greatly appreciated, Thanks!

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Weird


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 7:45 pm

16/f
Well me and this guy had a 3 month relationship that ended in may. We still like eachother so we want to try to date again. We talked really good for a long while. Then all of a sudden he is acting different and not talking to me as much. I don't get it. He says he wants to date really bad and he really really likes me. But why won't he text me as much? Now he says he's just busy all the time. Well apperently he wasn't that busy before. Help?

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can't stay attracted


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 7:07 pm

any time i like a guy at all, the closer we start getting to each other i automatically become unattracted to him for no reason at all. even if he is my type and there's nothing wrong with him and he's really sweet to me and he likes me a lot, i become unattracted to him the closer we get.

why does this happen and how to i stop being like this?!?!?!

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WHat do you think?? GIRLSSS OnlY gUYz can have their views too.


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 4:02 pm

DO you think its ok for your boyfriend to have a girl "friend", where he went to her house ONCE,without your permission,and you never meet her before?

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what can i do?>


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 3:47 pm

my bf has been really busy lately with work, baseball, and school. I work and go to school too but i still manage to have time to do things. my bf never has time to go out..we been together for 4years, I was just wondering what are things i can do to keep myself entertain while he is out doing things. I only have 1 true friend but she is always with her man.. What can i do?

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How do I start dating again after a long relationship has ended?


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 3:39 pm

My 5 year long relationship has come to an end, and now I'm scared that I won't be able to find anybody else that would want me.

I suppose the bigger problem is that I have a hard time trusting in people, and yet I need somebody to love me. I just don't know what I'm going to do.

How do I meet good guys and show them I'm interested (assuming I find a decent guy in the beginning)? I'm so lost and scared that this is the end for me and guys. Any advice on how to get over this bump in the road?

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What goes through a guy's mind after he hooks up with a girl?


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 3:36 pm

Guys, please explain to me why after hooking up interest is lost so quickly. Is there a way to bring that interest back? Why after hooking up with a woman too quickly, men usually lose interest completely? What goes through your minds the next day after that quickly? This has happened to me time and time again! I hook up with a guy that I really like and who seems to like me and then he stops talking to me, won't answer his phone, won't reply to my emails anymore, etc. What do guys think after they hook-up with a girl that makes them not want to see/talk to her again? It makes me feel like trash.

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Is taking him back stupid and not even worth it?


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 12:54 pm

Me and my ex went out for about 19 months. Near the end of the relatinship, i worked two jobs working every single day almost and went to school full time. (im 17 hes 18 in college) Whenever i wanted to hang out on my one day off or whatever, he would find other things to do. I felt like his last priority, and i finally broke up with him just cause i was so pissed one day cause we were supposed to hang out and he completely ditched me, he never acted sorry. Anyways, that night he got with a girl. I wouldnt talk to him no matter what he said for 2 months. Then i saw him at a party. Ever since hes been trying to get me back. But one weekend he went away for this drink fest concert, he claims he heard shit about me and another guy talking and ...

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college&love


Posted Thursday July 9 2009, 3:53 am

My boyfriend and I will both be starting college in mid August and are determined to stay together. We have a strong relationsip and breaking up at the end of the summer has never been an option. I'm starting to get really sad and depressed knowing we only have a month left together though. We're used to seeing each other 5 or 6 days a week and now going to colleges 5 hours apart we will obviously not see each other that much. I'll be in college for six years and he only has to go for two at the most so the plan was for him to move near my school and then we'll live together. So I'm looking at two years of only seeing him once or twice a month during the school year and possibly the summer. He's going to a technical school that might not ge...

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