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How to start a relationship?
Alright, this seems like a really stupid question but I've never really been in a relationship before. I have a friend that recently I've begun to like in "that way." I'm somewhat getting signals that she may like me too. Anyway, what I'm asking is how do I go about talking to her about becoming my girlfriend? We hang out and stuff, so I'm not sure whether to just profess my feeling towards her which could get awkward, or ask her if she likes me, or what?
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Awww, that's sweet :] and it's not a stupid question, it's a good question ! You actually care enough about this girl to actually want to bring this "conversation" up the right waay. Okay so here it goes..
Don't just jump into the whole i-like-you-do-you-like-me topic of conversation, because it will really make things awkward and she might shy away from you if she thinks you're coming on too strong, yuh know ? But since you guys are friends and hang out, it makes it 10 times easier. So take a deep breath :] act normal around her and just go with the flow. Don't be nervous either, just pretend like it's no big deal. When you're talking, kind of switch the topic around, and be like, "you know, I've been thinking about alot of stuff lately.." [kinda let your sentence trail off, like you're still thinking about it now] and she'll probably be like, "yeah?" or "yeah, about what?" [something along those lines] and you could say something like, "I don't know how you'll feel about this, but, I really like you as more than a friend and I just wanted to know if the feeling was mutual or not."
Just tell her :] if you make it awkward, it WILL be awkward, I would know. haha. and don't start of by saying, "this might be really awkward but..." because then it's just bound to be awkward, but dpeneding on her answer then you could ask her if she'd want to be your grilfriend. Just have confidence in yourself and everything will turn out spectacular :]
good luck, hope I helped ! and don't sweat it, go with your gut instinct :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! have funn. xxo.
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I would tell her how you feel.
She might feel the same way. I would just ease into it in conversation, and just tell her exactly how you feel, because it will feel really good to get your feelings out in the open.
--Jack
(17/m)
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If you like her and she is already your friend then come out and tell her. If you dont' know how to approach the subject then you could go along these lines
"I wanted to talk to you about something...I know it's sort of off the subject but I really like you and was wondering if you'd go out with me"
I wouldn't just come out and ask her if she likes you in that way...It would be kind of awkward yes. However if you want to know how she feels about you then tell her that you really need to get something off your chest and tell her that you started to develope feelings for her and take it from there. :)
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