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chilling with ex boyfrennnnd
okay so recently i've been hanging out with my ex. things have been going pretty gooddd. i went over and we played catch outside and listened to music, it was chill and i think we both had fun :) he was doing things like hitting my butt (joking around not in a perverted way) then when i had to leave he asked if he could come with me and he asked his mom but she said no =/ (i heard him pretty much beg her and he was getting into an argument over it) so i left and he gave me a big hug. what do you guys think? we broke up about 3 months ago if that matters.
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In my opinion, it kind of seems like he was flirting with you :] which is totally good if that's what you want .. to be in a relationship again. Because it sounds like, that's where it's headed if you guys keep this up :] Maybe he's realizing that he lost someone [you] that was so special to him and hanging out with you has made him put things in perspective and now that connection is "back" he wants to see where things will go with you.. again. haha. If that makes sense. But really, you need to talk to him, thats the only way you'll get anywhere close to knowing what his intentions are. I mean, him wanting to come with you when you leave is a REALLY good sign, because he wanted to spend more time with you, and usually "just friends" wouldn't beg their parents to go if it wasn't that big of a deal. But maybe you are just a big deal to him :] yay. It's also good that he hugged you, because it's his way of showing true affection without going overboard like kissing you or whatever haha. But really, talk to him and see what he says, I'm sure it will be what you want to hear.
good luck, have fun :] and go with the flow ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
p.s. maybe it just took him 3 months to notice that he misses you and wants you back, or that he just cherishes your friendship and wants to keep it in the friends zone.. just putting those toughts out there :]
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I would talk to him about it.
If you both are having feelings that you like each other still, maybe you should still be together.
But, maybe he just really likes your friendship. Maybe he's just happy that you're friends after breaking up. I know that I personally like being friends with exes, because animosity is no fun, because it brings on unnecessary drama.
Talking to him will help you both know where you two stand.
--Jack
(17/m)
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i personalliy think there is still something between you guyz, I mean you sound disapointed him mom said no, and honestliy so does he, you sound so cute together, but is there a reosen, she said no, cuz' she wont let you two hng out? or cuz' he just wasn't aloud to leave the house? that also makes a HUGE difference if you know what I'm getting at. but I think if you have feelings for him, go for it!
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