my bf has been really busy lately with work, baseball, and school. I work and go to school too but i still manage to have time to do things. my bf never has time to go out..we been together for 4years, I was just wondering what are things i can do to keep myself entertain while he is out doing things. I only have 1 true friend but she is always with her man.. What can i do?
lostbutfound answered Thursday July 9 2009, 11:39 pm: I'd start doing yoga or something if I were you. It's a great stress releiver, and it takes up time. I would hope your bf at least has a day where he can do something at least once a week. If he doesnt talk to him and see if you guys can go out once a week no matter what. Of course you can go out more then that if it's possible, but make sure you both have a day where you can just hang out and relax. Another thing you should do is have a girls night once a week too. Just find some things that interest you, or things you've always wanted to try but never got the chance to do and do them. My best friends are my sister and my friend. Lately they havent really wanted to do anything with me. So i've been keeping myself busy with working out, working on school work, having time by myself to just relax and figure things out, cooking, cleaning, reading, going to the library, watching movies etc. Just all sorts of things.
Hope I helped, and good luck. :D [ lostbutfound's advice column | Ask lostbutfound A Question ]
K3587 answered Thursday July 9 2009, 9:31 pm: My woman has this problem too, as I work far too much. She really doesn't have any hobbies, and that's her main issue. Find someone who shares a hobby of yours, and do it together. If there's a certain show you watch, find someone who will watch it with you and you can discuss it with them. If you like to work out, find a work out buddy to go to the gym with you. You can find communities online that share similar interests in your area, whether it be through Craigslist, Myspace, Yahoo groups or whatever.
I recently found an old friend through Myspace and invited him over to the house for a PPV I'm hosting. Social gatherings with no pressure are a great way to catch back up with old acquaintances. If you find you don't have any immediate friends who have the ability to hang out, you may search to reconnect with old friends. It couldn't hurt to try. [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
o0Yourmom0o answered Thursday July 9 2009, 9:21 pm: That sounds exactly like me! :)
Well, I go on my myspace, and just look at some people that arent really true friends but sort of friends, and ask them if they want to hangout.
Also, you can hangout with your family, I like to hangout with my sister a lot.
If you don't like any of that, maybe every once in a while have a day to yourself, when you just do your hair, nails, chill out in sweats, and watch a movie, or do something else you would enjoy.
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