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Jimmy <3
Hey! 131/2 f (Long..i'm sorryy)
I met this awesome guy (Jimmy)last week at the public pool with my friend. We thought he was cute. ha ha :) He thought the same thing and we talked and everything we had fun together. After that day we started texting and talking on the phone and stuff like that. Well i found out that he liked me,and i was SOOO happy because i really like him to. Well we text each other and..he talks dirty. ha ha I also do.. but not LIKE he does, i just say makeout..and stuff like that but he wants to "Do" me. ha ha ;) Well i saw him again today at the pool..with his friend Erica (she's also my friend)i think he knew that i was going..because he didn't act like he was suprized that i was there. Well i went with my cousins and i had to watch them. I didn't talk to them until probably a half an hour than i started talking to them. We were having so much fun. We played a joke on him, and when we were walking away from him he followed because we were going to go swimming together. He started massaging my shoulders IT FELT SO GOOD !! Ha ha. I think he might of untied my bathing suit top a little bit?? I'm not sure though because i was giving my cousins piggy back rides. Well after we got in the pool Erica asked jimmy if i could lick him anywhere. I said i wanted to lick him to her..AS A JOKE, and he said " ;) anywhereee?? Suree". He said. well..i didn't. Well he put his arm my waist and picked me up and dunked me in the pool (safely ha ha) He did that twice. It was cute <3. Well, after that he started singing "Hanging by a moment" by Life house until his friend picked him up and shoved him into the water. ha ha Well.. the one thing that happend was well..he touched my butt, i said "Did you just slap my ass?!" He said "I tried". Than we all started laughing..than a few minuets later he had his hand "down there" and he was ..um like playing down there?? Like whats that called ?? It didn't last long. (no one saw it we were in the water)It felt good.. like it made me feel excited ohh..that's bad isn't it? See I'm a christian so is Jimmy..and is that bad that i liked it?? Well..i found out by Erica that they "did IT" she told me that they didn't mean to..it just happened. She told me that there not dating and it grossed her out that they did. Now..I didn't really want to know that because im worried that he likes her..but he acts and talks like he likes me. One day i forworded a message to him on the cell phone that said "What would you do if you lost me?" he said "I'd cry me eyes out". I also asked him if he would forget me when he went back to school (he's 15) he said no. So.. i asked him the big question if he loved me..and he said yes. Sooo... i don't know if we are going out or .. what i don't think so. Should i ask him out or wait?? What do you think i should do?? I really like him... SO much. I think he feels the same.
Please help me out!
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I'd like to start of by first saying that ... hun, he doesn't LOVE you. Love is a very strong word, and this seems more of a strong liking towards you. Sometimes, guys tell you what they think you want to hear so they can get something out of it .. I'm not saying that these are jimmy's intentions, but from what you've told us, it seems like it might be..
But to answer your question, I think you should wait it out and not jump to any conclusions. If he wants a realtionship with you, he'll properly ask you out so that you KNOW for a fact that you guys are going out. Otherwise, he's not really as into it as you are. Also, realize what you are potentially getting yourself into, he had sex with erica, and he went kinda fast with you in the pool and stuff, if you know what I mean. But that doesn't rule out the possibility that he is actually a really nice guy who could care for you in the future. so talk to him about it, ask him what's going n between you two, if you don't ask, you won't know. and maybe he's waiting for you to bring it up because he doesn't know what to say. Teh possibilities are endless, but if you like him, go for it, just be careful and don't forget that he's older and has obviously had more experience than you..
good luck, ask him what he would "call" you guys, like if you're together or both single. then you can decide how you feel and what you want to do :] have fun and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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No, I don't think you should ask him out.
Well play hard, and be hard to get because guys likes to get what they can't have.
And if he asked you out then that mean he likes you but don't be so sure.
Because he seems like a bad boy... And even though he would go out with you, but you better watch out because he might want to just do something with you or take something away from you for his own pleasure.
So ... Make a wise decision.
Good Luck =]
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that kind of guy will just break your heart. he's a christian you said, yea right you should be careful, he doesn't really like you just watch what you do.
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Just because he slept with her doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. Who knows how long ago they had sex. On a serious note believe me he does not love you, how could you possibly love someone you've only known for a week. This is not the movies, this isn't a fantasy. Its real life. He could be infatuated, if anything. I'm not trying to discouarge you I'm just trying to be honest with you.
Now that that's out of the way, I do think you should ask him out. Apparently you two like each other. You have fun together, so why not? Don't let what he's done in the past, mess up what future you two could have. Good luck!
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He slept with her.
Does it sound like he gives a damn about you?
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