Basically, me and this girl have been talking off and on for a few months, but recently it's really picked up. Like texts, chat, or facebook status comments nearly every day now. I'm starting to really like her, and I'm curious if she likes me back. First question. She starts a lot of these conversations, so my first instinct is that she wouldn't be talking to me so much if she didn't kind of like me. Is that a good assumption? Second off, how do I even bring this up. Like do I just tell her that I like her? Or how could I do it subtly to kind of feel out what she's thinking too? Can you give me specific conversation starters please? Thanks a million!
itdependsonyoux3 answered Sunday July 12 2009, 2:07 pm: You are EXACTLY right, if she didn't want to talk to you she wouldn't. We might be complicated, us girls, but sometimes, we're very easy to figure out. So with that said, she either is interested in you as a friend or more OR she could be some nasty girl who likes to lead boys on, although I highly doubt that it's the third guess, because we don't really like to waste our time :] Okay, to answer your second question, there ARE ways to find out if she likes you in the same way you like her..
1. does she do this with alot of other guys? maybe like your friends, like coommenting on their status and all of that? because if she doe, than it might just be a i-want-to-be-your-friend sorta thing.
2. when she comments on your status and talks to you and evertyhing, is she flirty? does she compliment you or playfully tease you? and does she try to keep the conversation going, like asking you questions and being interested and learning about you? if she does this, she's interested in you, most likely.
Okay so now that you know that, on to the conversation part. when you're talking to her, you could do one of 2 things..
1. start off by asking her if she's interested in anyone at the moment. either playfully or seriously. for example..
- you: "so I was just wondering if you were into anyone right now? if you tell me, I'll tell you. ;]"
- you: "wan to play 20 questions?" [she'll most likely say yes] btw, 20 questions can be either one person asking 20 questions or both people can, one of your questions could be, "do you like anyone?" that could be a great way to start off a conversation like that. oh and the rules? you HAVE to answer with a specific answer. :] creative, huh?
Her answers will let you know exactly how she feels. good luck and let me know how it goes ! If you need anything else, dont hesitate to inbox me :] xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
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