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messy situation with ex
Posted Friday July 17 2009, 5:16 am
My ex broke up with me because I asked him what he thought love was. And he got uncomfortable and scared. So now, a month later, we haven't talked since the break up because I was so upset with him because he made up a reason because he didn't want to admit his fear. And now he finally broke down and talked to me. And explained to me what was going on. And he's desperate to have me back because he made a huge mistake leaving me. And I am torn between sympathy and disappointment. I want to forgive him and for everything to be okay. But he hurt me so badly by doing what he did. I'm not sure if I should take the chance and risk having my heart broken again. Suggestions?
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this guy.
Posted Friday July 17 2009, 4:07 am
soo i met this one guy a couple months back and i have reallly stong feelings for him. but right before i bet him, him and his girl broke up. they had been going out for about two years on and off. and thats along time considering hes 19 and shes 17. and im 16 btw haha. anddd he lives in a different state :/ but ignore that fact haha.
anyways. we talk everyday. hes the type that goes out and parties so i get really lonely at night when we arent talking and he seems like hes interested in me cause he calls me babe and baby and stuff and he told me when im 18 i can come live with him and stuff. and when we like stop talking during the day cause hes busy or im busy he says love you and stufff. and he just gives my signs that he does. bu...
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is he playing me, hook up or relationship?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 11:56 pm
okay so my main question is how to tell if a guy just wants to hook up with you, or if he actually is wanting to date you. there is a guy that goes to my school, before we were really never that close but he saw me at a concert when i was HOT and he never left me that night. and then two days after he wanted to hang out with him and he came over, when he confessed he thought i was really beautiful, smart, nice personality and wanted to hook up with me at the concert. we have yet to hook up, and he keeps texting me and trying to hang out with me. he says he wants to get to know me and he always texts me first. how can i tell if he actually likes me or if i am just another hook up. because it seems like a lot of trouble just to hook up with someone, he could have hooked up with me already.
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another questionn
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 11:22 pm
thanks so much for helping me...but my plan got a little messed up...so we just talked on the phone about some stuff and he said he still has feelings for me, but he isn't ready for a relationship because he kinda just wants to have fun and he thinks its hard work. he then said that if he went to a party with me he wouldn't trust himself because the good feelings would come back. he also said that he's been only thinking about the good times we had together and none of the bad. i asked him to go on vacation with me because i thought the time was right and he said he definetly wanted to but he has to make sure his dad will have left by then (he's a soilder in iraq and comes home for like a month). but he made it clear he definetly wanted to ...
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A college boy's wandering eye..
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 10:38 pm
Some background information before I start: I'm in high school. My boyfriend just graduated high school. We have a fairly strong relationship and plan on living together as soon as we both finish college. He's had one other serious girlfriend, who he dated for 3 years. He loved her but went too far one night with another friend of his. Though he was completely honest about it with her and they tried to repair their relationship, the damage was done, and they broke up. He met me soon after, and our relationship began.
Even though I know we truly love each other, I can't help but think that I'm only second best in his heart. He has conflicting feelings about his ex-girlfriend still, after all of this time with me. He says that he can't...
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double date idea
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 6:27 pm
where can my bff and i, and our bfs go for a double date other than our houses or movies or mall?? and where would be a sweet place for just me and my bf of almost a year to go?
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flirty lines
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 6:24 pm
what are some flirty lines to use to make your boyfriend wow?
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spice things up a bit?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 6:23 pm
how can i spice things up with my boyfriend, weve ben together almost a year :) but its starting to go bleh.
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Ball ?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 5:20 pm
Okay so whenever either I finger myself, if I put my finger in a little deeper, I feel like this hard ball thing ? Once when my boyfriend was doing the same, he actually said something about it. He was like "babe, what is that?" I was just wondering, this is normal right ? & what is it ? & you're suposed to be able to feel it.
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Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 5:11 pm
what do guys who are into just one sport (not just various sports or exercise) think about girls who don't get or like sports but make an effort to learn from them? i mean, do guys care if their gf is into sports (not talking about being active)
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Should I call her?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 2:36 pm
So me and this girl have been talking online a lot lately and texting, and I really like her. I'm getting some signals that she may like me back, although I'm not exactly sure. She's gone for the summer but she'll be back in about a month. Anyway, I'm kind of shy, which is why I prefer texting and chat, but people say I should call her. Do you think I should call her? What kind of stuff should I say? Does it matter if its really short or will that make her mad?
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Does he like me? I don't know!
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 6:01 am
Hi all =) I'm kinda stuck with this guy that I really like. Usually I ask my friends for advice for this sort of stuff but they seem just as confused as I do =/ I'm sorry if this is long!
Basically I know this guy who I really like, I met him through a close friend a couple of months ago and we were just friends at first but we got close and he told my friend he liked me, and his friends told me that he had told them he liked me. So I told him I liked him and he said it back =)
anyway more to the point, lately we have just been talking and kissing, but he when I was at his house with his friends and we had been drinking, he will just go in a mood with me. I used to ignore it b/c he only does it when he's drunk...
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Would he want to date me... again?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 2:07 am
Junior in high school to be. 16f.
I met this guy in eighth grade and we became really good friends. We had a couple classes together. Unfortunately, when he told me he liked me the summer after eighth grade (I had liked him the first half of eighth grade whereas he liked me the second half), nothing came to be out of it since this other guy liked me at the same time, and I didn't want to hurt the other guy since he was my friend, as well. Although I don't regret making the decision that I did, I definitely have strong feelings for him again after two years; maybe it's better now than two summers ago since recently, we've discovered that we have a lot in common, and we connect better than we have ever before. We've hung out a ...
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changing people...
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 1:33 am
SO many times i have heard over and over that you cant change people. Women cant change men, men cant change women... yet I've seen it happen. Right before my eyes. How is it possible that some of us are exceptions to this rule and some of us ARE the rule???? and how would one know...
I guess I'm just looking for some insight on how this psychology of changing occurs... I would like some opinions. How is it that no matter how stubborn a person is, someone comes along that can change them...and why is it that only that person can, nobody else...
any opinions, personal philosophies, that sort of thing?
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Love Again?
Posted Thursday July 16 2009, 1:12 am
I know people always say you can love one person, then move on and love another person. I'm not sure how to do that though. What was it like for you (whoever decides to answer this question) when you moved on to another person, and fell in love with them? Did you learn anything new? Do you regret leaving the person you loved before that person? Any advantages, disadvantages? ..Any pointers to help me? .. Any advice at all would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Please Help Me!
Posted Wednesday July 15 2009, 4:30 am
OK theres this guy his name is Jason! really I dont know too much about him considering I've only hung out with him for like a total of 2 weeks, and I've only known him for a little over a month. The first day I met him I was with my best friend to go hang out with her boyfriend and this guy jason just stood out to me. well anyways we stayed that night at his house and his kisses (undescribable)! Everyday for the next week after that I was around him. My problem though is that at night when we're in his room it's like we cared so much but the next day it was like nothing. maybe it was cuz when his friends asked me if I liked him I would say no just because it doesnt seem like Im the type of girl that could ever be more than a careless fling...
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I want more than a friendship!
Posted Wednesday July 15 2009, 1:40 am
Hello.
There is this boy who I've been talking to for about a month or so.He seemed really interested in me and would text and talk to me ALOT.I mean like we'd be texting for like 12 hours.I went on a trip for about 2 weeks and he texted me every single day and i was excited to see him when I got back.When I got back,we talked and hungout and whatnot.He seemed like he liked me.Until recently when he started hanging out with me and my friends as well he told me that he only wanted to be friends and that it would be awkward if we were any more than friends around "everyone else". I think that he just got so comfortable in my group of friends that he started seeing me like a friend! He stopped talking to me as much and began t...
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what do you do to get a guy to notice/like you?
Posted Wednesday July 15 2009, 12:05 am
Theres someone I i've just met and like, i haven't really been in a whole lotta relationships and am very shy, and maybe sorta
standoff-ish because im inexperienced, not dated frequently...as most girls my age I have friends but don't ask advice cause i don't want to talk to them about it. I want to become more comfident and calm, and actually ask him out, or get him to.
any advice about being more comfident/calm or flirting tips that subtly tell someone "i like you"? please help out...
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I need a girlfriend fast!
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 11:51 pm
I'm 17 going into my senior year of high school. I was wondering what I should do to get a girlfriend fast and easy. Be specific. I need something other than " try talking to her".
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what to do with myself?
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 9:56 pm
16/f
my boyfriend is going to be gone the rest of the summer. i won't be able to see him or talk to him that much. the only thing we have discussed about communication is writing letters. so we plan on doing that. but the thing is, i'm crazy about him. i can't describe it. i'm just so in love with him. ahhhh i dont even know exactly what i'm asking for... i just need advice on how to deal with this. how do i prevent myself from going crazy everyday without talking to him?? i feel like i might jump off a cliff if i don't talk to him. i can already predict that i'm going to cry almost everyday because i will miss him so much.
i'm also asking this- do you think i'm taking this too seriously?? because when i talked...
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