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this guy.
soo i met this one guy a couple months back and i have reallly stong feelings for him. but right before i bet him, him and his girl broke up. they had been going out for about two years on and off. and thats along time considering hes 19 and shes 17. and im 16 btw haha. anddd he lives in a different state :/ but ignore that fact haha.
anyways. we talk everyday. hes the type that goes out and parties so i get really lonely at night when we arent talking and he seems like hes interested in me cause he calls me babe and baby and stuff and he told me when im 18 i can come live with him and stuff. and when we like stop talking during the day cause hes busy or im busy he says love you and stufff. and he just gives my signs that he does. but at the same time i feel like he just does it to do it if you know what i mean? he the realllly horny type too so idk if what to think. and i dont wanna ask him cause we have never met and stufff so i dont wanna get all serious on him ahha
but today we didnt talk the whole day so i was like ok whats up with that? cause we always tlak. i texted him a couple hours ago and he said "sorry i dont htink of you. i dont even have time for myself. sorry girl" i dont really know what that is suppose to mean. and he was like acting really weird. and i asked him what he wss doing and he said thinking and im like bout what and he said everything. he was just giving me some weird answers. and im like welll ill leave you alone and he said im just gonna go try to sleep. and hes like sweet dreams babe.
so can someone help me out here. he tells me im beautiful and stufffand he makes me smile. and gives me hints that he likes me but at the same time im just like idkkk?
so what do you guys think of this or what i should do?
ps. dont say anything about us being in differnet states or that fact we have never met. thats not what im asking about so dont talk about that.
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Your a sweet girl. One who obviously is too sweet to really read signs.
But you explained everything and I will...translate :)
He's a flirt. He has another chick on his mind. Your not his main squeeze. Don't give him the satisfaction of knowing your really into him and he can have you whenever HE wants. That's a lot of power to give to someone.
Move on. And fast.
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Actually I had one of these when I was your age (different state and age difference and all).
I didn't end up meeting him in person until this past fall when he came out see me. He was shorter than I expected...
Anyway, ignoring the states and whatnot I've had a few older guys do this to me (Brian, Henry and Mike to name names). Usually when they do this and say their "thinking about everything" they're interested in a girl they aren't sure they can have and are wondering if they should chase her. I can guarantee this is not you. It never is. It's usually a hot 21 year old they met in a grocery store or something. They're wondering if they can get her or if they should settle for you.
Seems to me that he's moving on from you, and away from you. It really sucks, I know.
V, my guy from another state, actually did this too... and then one day I called him and this girl answered... she said she was his girlfriend... I was pretty crushed but wrote it off to the distance thing... but then it happened the same way with B, H and M... and they all lived in state with me, so obviously this is just a retarded guy thing... Men are wusses...
Anyway... he's probably going after someone he likes more than you... so I'd move on.
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