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spice things up a bit?
how can i spice things up with my boyfriend, weve ben together almost a year :) but its starting to go bleh.
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Do something totally crazy and spontaneous one day! He's your boyfriend right, so I'm guessing you guys are intimate although I'm not sure to what extent. Anyway doesn't matter. I suggest you get really creative and do something fun. This happened to me once and we were both getting kinda bored with our relationship so what I did was I made up this game for him...I would leave him little notes in his house or car whenever he wasn't looking. Or I would sometimes slip a note in his pocket. It had a riddle on it or a word or an inside thing that only me and him knew about. And he had to figure it out. He figured out it was me that was doing it but I told him he had to play along and he did. Each riddle gave him a clue or told him to go somewhere, and usually I would be waiting for him there and you know =) stuff happened. You can make this totally PG if you wish. Each place was somewhere new, and that's how we got so many secret places that we made our own. I kept it going for a few months, sometimes a week or two would go by with no note and he began to miss it. Haha it always kept him on his toes...always guessing. Really the whole thing was sort of pointless but it was fun and when I decided to stop it was when I gave him the ultimate riddle to sove...and the ultimate prize. :)
Well that's my story I can definitely tell you it made the relationship interesting. But seriously you just have to try new things, go new places, get creative, start a project together maybe. Remodel his room, or yours. Work out together. Learn to dance together (salsa is so much fun). Do stuff you both would enjoy. There are so many things you can do with your boyfriend... relationships are so much fun! Just enjoy each other! Fight a little, then laugh about it. Disagree sometimes...wrestle, be fun. Have fun! Hope this helps =) Good Luck!
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okay so in my notes I wrote riddles, but that you have to figure out cuz you know him better, and I sometimes wrote stuff like "Go to (insert place here) and look for a blue envelope, inside you will find your next clue" haha and that led him somewhere else, and sometimes I got our friends in on it, so he had to go ask people if they had a note for him, etc etc. Sometimes the notes would lead to me, sometimes I would make him his favorite food and they would lead there. I always made little surprises for him. So have fun! =)
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