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what to do with myself?
16/f
my boyfriend is going to be gone the rest of the summer. i won't be able to see him or talk to him that much. the only thing we have discussed about communication is writing letters. so we plan on doing that. but the thing is, i'm crazy about him. i can't describe it. i'm just so in love with him. ahhhh i dont even know exactly what i'm asking for... i just need advice on how to deal with this. how do i prevent myself from going crazy everyday without talking to him?? i feel like i might jump off a cliff if i don't talk to him. i can already predict that i'm going to cry almost everyday because i will miss him so much.
i'm also asking this- do you think i'm taking this too seriously?? because when i talked to him the past few days, and was around him, it seemed like he wasn't that upset or sad. but here i am, freaking out about how to handle myself.
i'm also scared. i'm scared that when he is away, he will find another girl. i'm scared that he will break my heart. i've never had my heart broken, and i love him sooooo incredibly much, i just don't want to lose him. what do i do???
please and thank you.
- a very confused and in-love girl.
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I don't think you're taking it too seriously at all. My boyfriend lives 2000some miles away from me, so I know exactly how you're feeling.
The best thing to do is NOT dwell on the bad things, and focus on the good things. Don't think of him finding another girl (because if that's what he wanted, he wouldn't be staying with you.). Think of him having a fun time wherever he's going.
Does he have texting or any other way of communication? If so, USE IT! Take advantage of every form of communication you can find. I like the letters though, because they are much more intimate. I think they'll do nothing but help your situation.
And just remember: he's coming home soon. I know it seems like it's really far away, but every day is another day closer to seeing him again! If you need any more advice, my inbox is always open :)
-Laura (17-f)
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If you have ever seen "The Notebook", the main character Noah writes a letter to his girl every day for a year. Do that or something similar to stay in touch. Him hearing from you often will decrease the chances of him seeing another girl because it tells him you love him and that you care about him and that you miss him. Guys like it when they are missed. it'll make him want to see you as soon as possible. Also tell before he leaves that you love him and that you'll miss him. If he finds another girl, then he is not the right guy for you if he will let a little time apart ruin a good relationship.
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