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Posted Friday August 28 2009, 10:49 am

Ok my story is a little bit long am sorry.
My boyfriend and i roke up in april 18 of 2009. then in may 03 he got with another girl. after that i made them brake up because i didnt liked the fact that he was with another girl. Ok he broke up with her in may29. Then in july 30th he got back with me.He was telling me all this stuff that he cantk with him because i really do love him. Then now in agust 1 he left to the dominican republic.Just 2 days ago i found out he has another live without me and sooo on.I whent bacgirl ovethere. at fisrt i thought his friend were just kidding but then i saw some pictures of him huggind with the girl and too closed together.there is another one with them in the pool together.right now he doesnt know...

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To move, or not to move?


Posted Friday August 28 2009, 8:29 am

24/f. I really would like a new job... but a new job most likely means moving back to the city and about 2:30hrs away from my boyfriend. We've been living together for just over a year, and its pretty great. I love my apartment, and I am very comfortable here. He really would rather not move to a city, nor leave his family. I am not sure what to do! At 24, it feels like such a juvenile question. Do I stay here at a job I don't like and hope something better comes along? Or do I keep applying to jobs far away and hope things work out with him? Either thought upsets me in one way or another... suggestions?

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How can I get over these feeling for him??


Posted Friday August 28 2009, 6:49 am


I went out with this dude, last year. Stoner
I loved him, we broke up for the dumbest reason,
but we were mates after that. We hung out, shit
loads.

More than we ever did when we were going out, so
I thought it was a good decision to stay friends.

But every time I go out with someone else, I
always find myself wanting Stoner back. Even when
I'm not with someone I want to be with him.

I don't like that I have these feelings because
I'm constantly thinking about him. I can't get
him off my mind...

I love him.
But I don't want to.
I want to just fucking let go.
It's been too long to still wa...

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Shy crush/ boyfriend I don't know


Posted Friday August 28 2009, 5:02 am

Hi I am 18. And I just got asked on a date first by my crush who is shy and conservative, but the nicest guy in the world. We have been friends for couple years now, and now we both are in different colleges, which means long distance relationship. Well the problem? Is I am socailly awkward, and i think he is too. I asked him once if we are bf/gf he said, idk and want to get to know eachother, which i really don't get (we know eachother for 4 years). We are moving on a really really slow pace, and I really want him as my bf, but I don't wanna screw up and break up our friendship as well as possible friendship. Right now, I have problem approach him, and if I don't talk to him, he won't even talk to me. I really don't know if he likes me or ...

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Woah I was way to quick to date him...


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 11:32 pm

Ok 15/f, my current bf is 14/m. He asked me out today. I've only known him since august 19 (the first day of school) because I am a sophmore this year and he is brand new to the highschool, being a freshman. So yeah, I hardly know him at all, and I totally don't get why I said yes... I mean I was just really happy because he's really cute and sweet, but seriously I hardly know anything about him. Today, my friend was saying that she knew him and that he had a myspace so I thought I'd go check it out :/ bad idea. All of his previous statuses from before school started were things like "I think I still love her", "I really miss her" and things like that, which were obviously not applying to me since we didn't know each oth...

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Is she too young for me?


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 9:08 pm

I am a 19 year old guy who has fallen for a 16 year old girl. It is a bit strange of a situation but I really do love her. She is amazing and beautiful. I would do anything on earth to help her or to make her happy. We are not officially BF/GF, I think we are both holding ourselves back, for fear of what it would mean. I know she loves me, I don't know to what extent. I can't seem to find a good way to ask/find out either. I have never really had a girlfriend before her, although I was always very observant of others and feel I know most of what I need to about relationships. She was outgoing and I was shy so we kinda met in the middle. We fit each other very well, have a lot of the same beliefs, ect. But the fact that she is still 16 reall...

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ABOUT MEN


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 4:38 pm

why do men like a woman to put her finger in his ass while having sex

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cute but stupid boy


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 4:03 pm

Hey im an 18/f. Well in November 2008 i worked with this guy named Edde. and he was really cute and super nice. i kinda had a crush on him. but i only talked to him 2 times, but then he got fired. Well I go to community college now and i made some new friends and one of them knows Edde. Her name is Megan. She talked to him and he didn't remeber me at first but when he saw me he said you use to work at the great american cookie right? and i was like yeah. But anways she told me all this stuff about how he was dating this stripper who also goes to the same community college as us. They broke up cause she cheated on him and go pregnant but for some reason their still friends. Megan told me she's no longer friends with the girl because she thou...

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Found e-mails from old girlfriend and am sooo confused


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 2:35 pm

I am usually the one giving advice but I am at a loss here as to what to do. Dating a wonderful man for 5 yrs. He is very successful in business and been divorced for 13 years. We waited for my daughter to go away to school to begin our "life together" under one roof. We have issues like every couple but are very much in love. He will basically do anything for me and treats me like gold. After all these years we are still like kids and text and e-mail love notes/exchanges 7-8 times a day. Basically we have a pretty perfect thing and I am madly in love with him. Before me (his ex really hurt him and left when he became ill now fully recovred) he had occasional GF's nothing overly serious. However before me he dated a girl ...

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Why am I still single?! :(


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 2:35 pm

I really don't understand why I'm still single. I'm 16, and a Junior in High School. I've never had a boyfriend, a first kiss, and I'm waiting to have sex until im older. And I've always been told by everyone that I'm very beautiful. It's just so weird that I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I'm quite shy in classes and stuff? I know of many guy's who have liked me throughout my years in school..but, they never asked me out. Friends say it's because I intimidate them? Which I don't get at all. I'm a very nice and kind girl. But, I know I could probably learn to be more outgoing. I don't know..I just don't have much to say in class because I'd rather listen to the teacher. I mean, I'm a junior, and I'd like to graduate next year....

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too long


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 1:15 pm

lately me and my gf have started getting physical and it takes too long for me to get off last time we tried she was giving me head and it felt so good but i couldnt cum she tried for about 45 mins after that i had to get myself the rest of the way to climax so that she could swallow in the end she likes it. but it took about an hour and a half. arnt guys supposed to get off alot easier. i just dont want to have our sex life drag on bcuz of this is there anything i could do to cum faster?

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i really dont understand this guy


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 12:12 pm

Basically 4 different guys liked me. All of my friends thought this was like perfect, but i hated every minute of it. I only liked one of them "in that way" and now he barely talks to me because of these other guys. I have explained over and over that i only like him. We have kinda made up now but we dont speak half as much as we used to. when he kinda "ignored" me for a week or so, i didnt contact him at all, i thought if he wants to be like that then ill leave him to it. then he soon came back to me!! He said he still really likes me, but he never calls/texts/emails me. I have imed him online before and he ignored me twice, but when he sees me he always acts like nothing is wrong, and telling me how much he likes me. e...

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how do i talk to her


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 8:26 am

16/f
alright. yeah i have a boyfriend, yeah im pregnant (you cant tell still).

buuuut, theres this real cute girl that goes to my school. shes a 'dyke' if you call people that. but anyways, i really wanna get to know her but everytime i wanna talk to her i get nervous. i dont wanna hook up or date her but i just wanna be her friend but i get sooo nervous since shes so cute when i wanna try to be her friend.

what are some good ways to not get all nervous ? thanks <3

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Inlove with a stranger continued..


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 3:57 am

Im really sorry this is abit long...ok some of you may have seen my recent question where i told you i liked this guy at my uni and really wanted to try talkign to him but was unsure if he liked me back. we always give eachother a look and our eyes always meet but i still wasnt sure if he was interested. To me he seems like hes a shy, mature person that spends alot of his time at the library.

this is the update...my friend went upto the guy and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said to her he did. i really wasnt sure if she actually went upto him or if she just told me he said he has a gf so that ill shut up or maybe he said it because he wasnt interested in her.

anyway i picked up my feminine balls, not...

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Has my crush turned into an obsession?


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 1:39 am

I think I have an obsession

I stare at her picture all the time (though recently I've been able to control this a bit)
I think about her all the time 24/7. Though when I do some activities I enjoy, they leave my mind for a while, but then come back again.
I have fantasies about her
I keep thinking she don't like me or think I'm weird, which pains me so much.
If I was still in school, I would probably go out of my way just to see them or get a glimpse of them.
I feel so envious of their boyfriend. I keep wishing I was them. And, as wrong as this sounds, I wish her boyfriend would die. If that sounds sick and wrong I agree. I'm ashamed.

Does anyone have any helpful tips in cur...

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from boyfriend to best friend?


Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 1:14 am

Okay here's how it goes. I'm gonna be a junior (I'm 16) in high school this coming year and last school year, I dated a girl I liked for about 4 months. Right after school was over, we broke up. After about a week, we started texting again and after a party which we flirted all night, she said she thought we should maybe get back together. After hanging out a couple more times, she decided against it but kept texting me all the time. Now she says we're best friends (I went to an amusement park with her and her family the other day), but sometimes she texts me and we have good conversations like we did when we went out, and other times she barely gives me any answers. It's like she goes through phases where she likes talking to me, and then ...

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Confused about boys.


Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 11:23 pm

So my boyfriend broke up with me for his ex about a month ago. and I've been really down. However, i've been kinda dating this other guy and we've been really close, but i just moved to college 2 hours away. and its been hard because i have trust issues. and so a few days ago, i heard that he told personal information about me to a girl that i hate. and i really don't know if i can trust him at all now. and I don't know if i'm willing to get hurt again. but he's trying really hard to make it up to me and make it work because I was his first and he really wants us to be together. Meanwhile, I just started talking to this other guy from back home (he lives 2 hours away too) and we haven't really become anything, but i think we both like each ...

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guys teasing me


Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 10:22 pm

16/f

i am lifeguarding this summer and this guy jake who is 18 and my manager keeps teasing me. i always thought he kind of liked me because my first day of working he would do almost ANYTHING to get my attention. he started teasing me about little things (ewww gross what is that you are eating?) but now it's gotten a lot worse (i heard you gave tim a blow job!) he also orders me to do stuff and clean things and says i'm "whipped" aka his bitch. He also asks me if i'm a virgin (which i told him i am) and if i think he's hot and asks things like, "would you rather have sex with matt or me?" now other guys who i work with start teasing me, nothing as intense as that but still bad like, "i heard you had...

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i want him back..


Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 4:14 pm

Right there is this guy that i have been out with before, but he finished me cos i dint talk to him that much.
But recently i found out he really liked me and the things is i really like him.

but how do i tell him?
if i text he tells his mates :/ and wen i ring i get scared ...
What on earth shall i do !?

im 14 years of age and i am female.


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the girl at work o_o


Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 9:04 am

its the first time i have met her today, we both seem'd reluctant to talk to eachother at first but we kept glancing at eachother across the store then looking back with a near embarressed feeling. I think i have a small crush but i have got to get to know her better shes absolutl'y beautiful.

normally i dont fall for people so easily but theres somthing about her, the way she moves, the way she looks at you... but unlike normall i didnt feel shy to talk to her i didnt have to act up a little bit like i normally do to make myself feel comfortable. anyways..

She kept glancing at me and looking away almost instantly but we kept on doing this for most of the morning, is there some teensey possibility that she cou...

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