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Woah I was way to quick to date him...
Ok 15/f, my current bf is 14/m. He asked me out today. I've only known him since august 19 (the first day of school) because I am a sophmore this year and he is brand new to the highschool, being a freshman. So yeah, I hardly know him at all, and I totally don't get why I said yes... I mean I was just really happy because he's really cute and sweet, but seriously I hardly know anything about him. Today, my friend was saying that she knew him and that he had a myspace so I thought I'd go check it out :/ bad idea. All of his previous statuses from before school started were things like "I think I still love her", "I really miss her" and things like that, which were obviously not applying to me since we didn't know each other at the time of those posts. Now I think he's just using me or something :/ however, I don't really know for sure and I feel like I don't really know him well enough to get mad at him or something... plus I don't really want to tell him that I was actually looking up his myspace page... I don't know what to do...what should I say to him? Should I just end it? How can I tell if he actually likes me? :( thanks for any answers I get...
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I know this might not be what you want to hear, but you could be the rebound girl.
It's just a guess, but when you think about it, alot of guys and some girls do this. They break up with someone or get broken up with and want to either get revenge or make their ex jealous so they immediatley try to get with someone they know they have a chnace with or someone who likes them, and they know that for a fact.
I mean, we all can only make assumptions. you just have to talk to him about this, I agree with the advice given below me, bring up the myspace thing and ask him what this is all about. If you feel like something fishy is going on or that something is off, follow your heart and go with your gut instinct.
If you don't know him well enough to think you arent "allowed" to get mad at him, that's not true. you should be upset about this. any normal person in a relationship WOULD be upset. you have every right to be angry and upset. I know you don't want to tell him that you looked him up on myspace, but since you guys are in a relationship now, that's perfectly normal, and he won't think anything of it. you could just be like, "hey, so, I was on myspace and I wanted to look you up, so i did and i noticed some of your statuses were about missing some girl... whats up with that? do you wanna talk about it? because that wasn't that long ago.." something like that. yuh know ? he won't be like, ew, freak. ahaha. not at all. trust me.
I think you should talk to him first before anything else.. like don't just end it so abruptly, let him explain his side of the story. But also, maybe you guys should talk about getting to know eachother better, if the conversation goes well.
oh i got it ! If you want a clever way to bring up the conversation about the myspace page thing, ask him to play 20 questions with you. go back and forth with the questions and close to the end, ask him about myspace, be like, "so on your myspace page your statuses are about this girl, whats up with that?" It's an easier way to say it i guess .. if you wanted another option :] haha. and then after all of the talking about it and everything and you still don't feel right, end it. maybe in the future you guys can be something more than friends [if it doesnt work out] when you get to know eachother better instead of just jumping into a relationship and having all of these doubts.
Don't worry though, you'll sort this out :] good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo. :]
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bring the myspace thing up to him , see what he says. trustt your instinct
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