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Inlove with a stranger continued..
Im really sorry this is abit long...ok some of you may have seen my recent question where i told you i liked this guy at my uni and really wanted to try talkign to him but was unsure if he liked me back. we always give eachother a look and our eyes always meet but i still wasnt sure if he was interested. To me he seems like hes a shy, mature person that spends alot of his time at the library.
this is the update...my friend went upto the guy and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said to her he did. i really wasnt sure if she actually went upto him or if she just told me he said he has a gf so that ill shut up or maybe he said it because he wasnt interested in her.
anyway i picked up my feminine balls, not litrally, but yeah i wrote him a letter saying that i was sorry to embarress him and that it was me that wanted his number not my friend and i just apologised and left my number at the end of the note and gave it to him, the reason i gave him i note was because we were at the library.
Its been two weeks and he still hasnt called or sent me a message or anything and i thought well hmm maybe he does have a girlfriend and if thats true then i respect him for not calling but two days ago we walked past eachother and he just looked at me. we were both looking at eachother as if we were the only two people on the campus. while he looked at me he kinda like trailed his eyes down and took a glimpse at my body but i wasnt sure if he was checking me out then he looked back up at my eyes.
IT WAS REALLYY WEIRDD! i really dont get it!i give him my number he doesnt use it but he has the nerve to look at me?i feel led on lol.
Oh did i mention at this time i tried to smile but it was a retarded smile, my friends said that it doesnt even look like a smile so thats probibly why he didnt smile back and just kept looking at me.
What impression do you get from this? Why would he not call me but still seemingly check me out or look me in the eyes? It felt like we had a moment, a silent one but still...
Any advice would be good thank you!
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Facts:
He's not into you.
He might have a girlfriend.
Impression:
You are reading waaaaay too deeply into his looks at you.
Even if, and it's terribly, horribly unlikely in my mind, but I'll say it anyways: Even if he is into you in some way, and also feels you had 'a moment' it's pretty clear at this point that he's not going to pick up his literal male balls and do anything about it!
Stop making eye contact. You aren't even friends. For all you know the only reason he was staring at you was because he felt you were staring at him (or better yet, he was trying to make sure he actually recognized you! I mean really, you two have never even spoken right? He might not be sure which girl you are!)
Please, let it go before it gets totally out of hand, and the next time you need to screw up the courage to communicate with a guy, manage a little bit more and do it in person, so you can get the real, direct message straight from him, rather then rely on friends and letters that can be confusing for a stranger, or simply ignored.
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