Hey im an 18/f. Well in November 2008 i worked with this guy named Edde. and he was really cute and super nice. i kinda had a crush on him. but i only talked to him 2 times, but then he got fired. Well I go to community college now and i made some new friends and one of them knows Edde. Her name is Megan. She talked to him and he didn't remeber me at first but when he saw me he said you use to work at the great american cookie right? and i was like yeah. But anways she told me all this stuff about how he was dating this stripper who also goes to the same community college as us. They broke up cause she cheated on him and go pregnant but for some reason their still friends. Megan told me she's no longer friends with the girl because she thought she was trying to steal him from her. And it was all this unecessary drama and edde recently started drama with Megan so their not friends now. But i really like him and i still want to get to know him better but how do i do this with his ex g/f in the way and without making it obvious that i like him? Should i even talk to him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sia answered Saturday August 29 2009, 4:11 am: heyyyo! ok well my advice to you is..go for it, try talkign to him make him trust you so that when she tries anything he wont believe her. make sure that your the one who looks good so if she is being nasty just be nice to her even try being her friend so she can trust you but not too good friends just a hi and bye kind so that she wouldnt try anything and so that your not close enough for her to try guilt tripping you.
just go for it make him see how nice of a person you really can be! dont worry about her she just seems like shes jealous and to be honest shes a cow for hurting him like that..go for it approach him and say hi bring up things he may like even ask him for lunch or something [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
music_is_life answered Saturday August 29 2009, 2:20 am: Hey there.
Hectic.
Well, if you really want to be friends with this dude, if you really like him. It wont matter what other people do or say...
Don't be scared to hang with someone just because they have some psycho ex.
If you don't want to make it obvious that you like him, when you're with others... Just be totally casual about it, like he's just another good mate.
If you want to talk to him. Do it.
Who cares what others think?
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