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i really dont understand this guy
Basically 4 different guys liked me. All of my friends thought this was like perfect, but i hated every minute of it. I only liked one of them "in that way" and now he barely talks to me because of these other guys. I have explained over and over that i only like him. We have kinda made up now but we dont speak half as much as we used to. when he kinda "ignored" me for a week or so, i didnt contact him at all, i thought if he wants to be like that then ill leave him to it. then he soon came back to me!! He said he still really likes me, but he never calls/texts/emails me. I have imed him online before and he ignored me twice, but when he sees me he always acts like nothing is wrong, and telling me how much he likes me. except he imed me and said "hi beautiful how have you been?" i imed him back saying im good etc, and he didnt reply? and he always does this. I dont understand at all!
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hey i know how you feel my boyfriend does that to me sometimes and then one day i sent him an email saing hey why are you doing this to me your making me fill lonely and i made him feel guilty ok and then when he saw me online he said baby im so sorry i havent been talking to you back to my point just make him feel really guilty ok it worked with me it should work with you ok email me and tell me how eveything works out ok
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well i think what you should do is confront the guy about his behavior tell him how you feel explain you want a relationship with him. maybe he will go for it but if he doesnt than thats not your fault hun. youll just have to go on and be friends.
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Hey there,
I believe this guy is just thinking that you are interested in the other three guys and so why would you want to be with him. He is a typical guy that thinks you arent interested, because you have so many other guys wanting you and therefore he probably isnt better than all the rest. You have to show him he is different.
Guys dont catch on that you like them. You either spend quality time with him alone and flirt a little to make him know he is special or you just kinda hint (or flat out tell him) that you like him. Remember to give him a little space though. He obviously likes you! and would like to get to know you better :) Tell him you would like to spend some time with him alone one day, talk about what is happening, and say you do miss talking to him ;)
Sometimes, he is thinking the same thing as you. Such as, "why isnt she texting me back? If I wait, hopefully she will come to me if shes interested". If he does not reply right away, don't worry. He may be helping his family, taking a shower, or hanging out with his friends. Just doing something that distracts him for a few minutes. He could also be trying to think of something to say, because he is shy, unsure what to say, or thinking he might say the wrong thing.
Text him or email him every now and then (not too much though) saying that you would like to get together, hang out, or just say hi and ask how he is :)
He WILL start talking to you more, hanging out with you more, and get to know/understand you better the more you talk and spend time together. Eventually his love for you will be even clearer. He will only give you every chance that you give him. He does sound like a great guy.
Be yourself, smile, communicate, and you will be on your way in no time :) He is probably only as confused as you are ;) Keep smiling at him <3
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For the internet not replying thing, you can never tell whether they're at the computer or not. Maybe he walks away from the computer a lot and realizes your IMs later? I tend to do that a lot, and then I just never bother replying since it was so long ago that they sent it. But yet again, guys are difficult and weird sometimes.
I kind of had this situation before, too. A guy told me he really liked me but he never made the effort to talk to me. So I was like whatt? But since I didn't know if I liked him back, I didn't really care if he talked to me or not.
But the bad side to this could be that he actually doesn't like you. He maybe thinks that he does but he's not too certain of himself all the time. I know my emotions were "bipolar" for a few people. One day I would like them and the next day I wouldn't. (buttt, I'm a girl and I don't know if guys do that, hah)
I would say to ask him about it. Just be like "aye, mannn. you say you like me but you don't really talk to me, whats the dealll?" (well, in better words of course but you know what I mean.) and see what he says. He may give a good explanation but he may also give a i-don't-know-what-you're-talking-about response, or he may give an odd response buttt which ever one, don't get discouraged! If you really like him, don't give up!
Well I hope I was at least some kind of help! Any other questions, just askk. I'm always here to help :]
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