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how do i talk to her
16/f
alright. yeah i have a boyfriend, yeah im pregnant (you cant tell still).
buuuut, theres this real cute girl that goes to my school. shes a 'dyke' if you call people that. but anyways, i really wanna get to know her but everytime i wanna talk to her i get nervous. i dont wanna hook up or date her but i just wanna be her friend but i get sooo nervous since shes so cute when i wanna try to be her friend.
what are some good ways to not get all nervous ? thanks <3
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Just say hi to her. I'm sure she'll say hi back. Just talk to her. :)
And just so you know, you definitely do not call people dykes. Especially lesbians, it's very insulting.
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First of all, there is nothing to be afraid of- just because someone is a homosexual doesn't mean they are attracted to you immediately. Get rid of you pre-judgement and get to know her first by keeping in mind that she is just like everyone else. When you have that prejudgment out of your mind, talking to her will not be scary at all. I have many lesbian friends (I am straight). When you talk to her, hint to her that you have a boyfriend, so if she is trying to hook up with you, she knows she will not have a chance. Don't let sexual orientation hold you back on making a new friend. Good luck!
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