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Shy crush/ boyfriend I don't know
Hi I am 18. And I just got asked on a date first by my crush who is shy and conservative, but the nicest guy in the world. We have been friends for couple years now, and now we both are in different colleges, which means long distance relationship. Well the problem? Is I am socailly awkward, and i think he is too. I asked him once if we are bf/gf he said, idk and want to get to know eachother, which i really don't get (we know eachother for 4 years). We are moving on a really really slow pace, and I really want him as my bf, but I don't wanna screw up and break up our friendship as well as possible friendship. Right now, I have problem approach him, and if I don't talk to him, he won't even talk to me. I really don't know if he likes me or not or is it one of his friend's stupid dares. Simply put, I am just really confused on what to do right now. Should I end this whatever relationship we have? or let it go on?
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You're 18, it's okay mess some things up. My brother is just like you in this situation.. only he's a guy.. but yeah. He's at college right now, and he and the girl are still fairly close. Just talk a lot, and since he's a guy I'm sure he'll make the first move. And if not he's missing out.
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You need to learn to talk to him, sort of let go because your not going to get anywhere being this way. Tell him how you feel because its just going to be awkward if you dont. The key in this is to open up to him so things can progress.
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