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vulnerable
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 3:43 pm
15/F. Here's what happened, pretty straight up. This boy was totally ONLY using me to get some action, so I broke it off with him. Then a guy that I was kind of close with/friends with saw that I was really vulnerable and tried to get me to have sex with him... but I had enough in me to say no to him. Well now I just feel like SUUUUCH crap because I feel like guys only want me because of the physical stuff... Like does my personality really suck so bad that that's all they want? I just feel like shit, and once again, pretty vulnerable and I don't want to just fall into another trap. So please, how can I avoid getting hurt again and running to the first guy who shows interest? I don't trust myself right now.
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complicated love life
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 2:19 pm
I dated this guy for a year and then I broke up with him when I was 19 almost 20. I have always loved him and held on to feelings for him, but I broke his heart and he withdrew from me and finally I didn't hear from him at all for about 4 years. I broke up with him because I focused on his imperfections instead of all of his wonderful qualities. Also, he wanted to get married and I don't think that I was ready for that at 19 or 20 and was scared. I am 26 now and more prepared for marriage. The thing is he called me up out of the blue about a year ago and told me that he had been married for 2 years and was now seperating because she cheated on him. We have been friends for the past year and his divorce is final and now I want to tell him th...
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falling in love ... with a second guy?
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 4:34 am
ok this is wierd but i have been with my bf for 4 years. i love him but i am starting to think our relationship is not as strong as it used to be. now we met online in a group for wrestling fans. well in the past year i have been chattin with this one guy and we exchanged phone numbers nd we chat alot and we call each other and swap pix often ... i am starting to feel the same way i did before i moved in with my current bf. like, he anawesome guy and i think i may be falling for him ... but i still love my current bf. whatni wong with me? some one just tell me im insane. what am i feeling and why?
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help! should i give her a chance? can i ever trust her?
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 1:30 am
I met this girl 5 months ago in texas, and we hit it off and I like her alot. The other day she told me some things that really made me think twice about being w/her and if I could ever trust her. She told me she's had a 1 nite stand, she's cheated once but, felt bad afterwards. she then tells me she believes in the saying "what he doesnt know wont hurt him" 2 make things even worse..she told me she was raped not once but Twice!! b/c she passed out. then she goes on and tells me shes loyal, trustworthy & only has sex if shes dating. Is it me or is this girl confused? she says 1 thing and then says the complete opp. Don't get me wrong, I give her alot of respect 4 being honest, it meant alot 2 me that she was. Not many females ...
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two loves confused
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 11:19 pm
My husban is in prison doing 6 1/2 years. I have a guy whom i been talking to for 2 years. im confused on who should i keep my focus on. I feel as if i love both but i know inside its imposible to love 2 people at the same time or is it???? both are trouble relationship but i cant stop loving either one..i need to make a decion
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this guy in my dreams??
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 10:02 pm
Ever since I was 8 (im 18 now)..I have been dreaming about this guy that i have never seen nor heard of. (there are kinda like relationship dreams)...I dont even know his name....I gavehm one though...I have never been in a relationship, but have always wanted one since I was like 5....Who is this guy?...I meet guys that resemble him(maybe 25-50%), but they dont look like him 100%....
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Sorry, long story.... I just don't know what too do!
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 10:01 pm
I'm 15 female, Softmor in high school.
He'll be 18 in a few days, Senior in high school.
I've knowen him for a few years, he's my best friend. Greatest friendship I'd ever had, there's just one small problem I've got a MAJOR crush on him! I'm afraid if I tell him I like him, he'll reject me. I've had ALOT of heart breaks all the same way... I'll tell the guy I like them, He'll say "I'm sorry I don't like you that way. I just wanna be friends." and he'll repeat it every other conversation, and in the end were not friends! I've never had someone crush on me, makes me wonder if it's cause I'm different. At my school, EVERYONE says I'm crazy(some mean good others mean bad), that and I'm the ONLY one even slightl...
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if you go on a date...
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 8:48 pm
Let's say on the date,the guy seems VERY interested and talks to me later that night after the date.
He hasn't called me or texted me since then.
That was Saturday night and it's now monday night without a call or text.I would be fine with texting him or calling him,except for I had the last word ..and I don't like to seem obsessed.
I was thinking about calling him Friday to see if he wants to hangout again ,if he doesn't talk to me before then.
Yes or no?
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guy(:
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 4:44 pm
15/f
so on saturday i was at ny friends house and her guy friend came over (A) and his friend (B). well i had never met either one of them and my friend had only met (A) well (B) was superrr hot and he goes to my school but i had never seen him before and when they left my friend texted (A) and was like my friend thinks your friend's hot. and he goes no shit shit everyone does. and then he put he thinks she ok too. then today i was walking to my first period and (B) was standing right next to the door, turns out his class is right next time and he smiled at me and i was like oh hey! and then i walked away. hmm heck of a qoincidence... then during fourth period i was walking the track for class and (B) was out there running the track!...
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help me..
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 3:49 pm
my boyfriend of like a year broke up with me 4 days ago.. i'm trying to move on because he said he doesnt wanna talk anmore and doesnt care anymore, and i'm fine during the day, i have my momenst where i miss him, but like at night, when i lay down, i cant fall asleep and i've cried myself to sleep everynight sense.. please dont say to try to talk to him because he doesnt want to and i refuse to bother him.. i just dont know what to do to get over him.. i miss him so much. help :(
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s3x.
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 3:33 pm
Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like comm...
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does he like me - what to do?:)
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 3:27 pm
When I broke up from a long distant relationship - I was at my friends house, ellie. Ellie had a mate called eric round (WELL they werent just friends..they were a fling) :) So we broke up and I crying hysterically on the pair of them - I didn't really know eric. They really comforted me.
The next morning, ellie had to work so me and eric were on our own. We strangley got on really well...like freakishly. We just layed in bed for 2 hours talking and then went out and got something to eat...he gave me advice, just was a pretty decent guy :)..he went with me and just hang round with me and my group of friends.
A stupid friend, who I actually dont like, cos he is a total bitch, bitchier than a girl went ba...
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i acted like he likes me but likes someone else
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 12:53 pm
i really like this guy. and i dont get him cause im new at this school .. and i havent really made that many friends yet, and he always comes and sits with me when im alone and asks me where i am in the break etc. so today we sat down and talked. and it was going really well until he started to tell me about his problems and that he still has feelings for his ex???!!! that kinda broke my heart cause he is honestly my dream guy and it always seemed like he likes me. cause he also got jealous when i flirted with other guys and when i sit with him he always tells his friends to go away, when they come. and like now i think that hes just talking to me cause he feels sorry for me? and him not liking me but liking someone else really broke my hea...
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what should i do?
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 6:28 am
I went on a date with this guy on saturday night.
The date went good and we seemed to like eachother.you could tell he was trying to kiss me the whole time,but im not a kiss on the first date kinda girl but i acted interested when he held my hand and all that.once we left,i texted him saying thanks for paying for my ticket and all that.He thought i wasn't interested in him since i didnt kiss him but i was told him i was interested and he told me to tell him to truth if i wasn't interested but i told him i really was.He never texted back for the rest of the night,then the next day a lot of drama happend with his next girlfriend,she kept texting me and fighting with me etc.She kept calling him and texting him but he didn't answer he be...
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I WOUNDER IF HE LIKES ME?
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 8:34 pm
ok well i went to a party and i saw this guy that i want to school with ...and we kinda klung together the whole night till 6 in the morning...i had so much fun well then we wanted to go to sleep well him and i slept in the same bed we didn't do anything but he just kept me up we wrestled over a blacket and he put his butt on me and at random moments he would do something to wake me up like making noises or talking under his bearth ...i don't know it was fun though. i miss being there...now it's like he wont get out of my head and i don't know what to do we might be hanging out this weekend again but i don't know.i hope so <3
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boy in my class.
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 5:38 pm
hey im 18/f im in college. well i go to community college. i have crush on this guy named Chris. he's really cute, but he thinks way to highly of himself. in other words he's cocky, but he's really quiet and doesn't talk much. in class i said to him oh you must think your really cool and he said i don't think im cool i know i am. and that really got to me cause even my friend James who sits behind me was laughing. I talked to Chris on facebook and we talked about how i thought that he was insecure so that's why he acts cocky. but he denied it. he also told me that he has 2 older brothers, and i think that's why he is the way he is. and he lives with his mom. but when i was talking to him on facebook it was weird because i felt like i was d...
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Awkward...
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 5:28 pm
Hi i recently met this girl, didnt really have much of a conversation with her but asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. She said sure, so i asked her a couple minutes ago if she wanted to get coffee. If she says yes, then how do I prevent awkward silence while we are together, seeing as i dont really know to much about her?
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let him go to party?
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 4:33 pm
hey im 18 and my boyfriend is 21. his ex girlfriend who he is still friends with invited him to her 21st birthday party. its of course going to be a drinking party and such. the only issue I have a problem with is 4 of his ex girlfriends are going to be there one who still has feelings for him. plus he would be spending the night there. 2 of his ex girlfriends have boyfriends so he assured me not to worry. he said he would only go if one of his guy friends went. but he really wants to go because he hasn't hung out with them in a while. I asked him kinda vise versa like if my ex boyfriends were going to a party and I was invited and going to spend the night type of thing. he kinda hesitated and didn't give me an answer. should I let him go I...
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should i forget about him???
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 4:18 pm
I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago and i have a restraining order on him. because of him it's hard to trust guys. Theirs a guy that i have known for 2 months, he broke up with his gf 5 months ago but she is best friends with his sister who is really close to him. he sees her everyday but she sees other guys and he sees other girls. He keeps telling me he wants something serious but i think he only says that to get in my pants. Before him I went 8 months with out having sex but the other day me and him did it. He sleeps over my dorm all the time and he even sleeps over when im on my period just to cuddle. I dont believe anything he says becasue i have a hard time trusting people so im not taking him seriously when he says he likes me ...
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Why hasn't he talked to me?
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 3:47 pm
So there's this guy i was talking to for about a month ,on texts.We hadn't met face to face but all my friends knew him and he lived near me so it wasn't like he was random.We finally met last night and went to the movies and He held my hand and paid for my ticket and all that cute stuff and I really liked him.You could tell he wanted to kiss me,but I didn't just because it was the first date.Later that night i texted him and he kept saying how he wanted to kiss and all but I told him next time we could and that I had a good time with him and that my friends liked him too,then he said he thought i wasn't interested in him because I didn't kiss him and i told him that it was because i was shy and because I didn't think he wanted me to be all...
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