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what should i do?


Question Posted Monday September 14 2009, 6:28 am

I went on a date with this guy on saturday night.
The date went good and we seemed to like eachother.you could tell he was trying to kiss me the whole time,but im not a kiss on the first date kinda girl but i acted interested when he held my hand and all that.once we left,i texted him saying thanks for paying for my ticket and all that.He thought i wasn't interested in him since i didnt kiss him but i was told him i was interested and he told me to tell him to truth if i wasn't interested but i told him i really was.He never texted back for the rest of the night,then the next day a lot of drama happend with his next girlfriend,she kept texting me and fighting with me etc.She kept calling him and texting him but he didn't answer he because he hates her.I then texted him simply saying hey,nothing else.He never responded.I really want things to work out with him because he said he was interested in me.I was thinking about calling him later since it's been a couple of days and just ask him to hangout? Should I wait and see if he texts me?His phone might be messed up though because it was a few weeks ago or maybe he's busy?
I just want to know what the deal is!


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staceyxlove answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 12:20 pm:
He sounds JUST like a guy I once knew. Quite a similar story to me and him too, so I know how you feel. First off, he likes you. He obviously thought that you didn't like him much because you didn't want to kiss him. Guys think like this. From my experience, I would text him again. Say something more than "hey" say something which can lead to a response such as "hey, how are you?" and ask him what he's been up to etc. If he still doesn't reply then just leave him to it and find someone who does actually want to interact with you. He'll probably end up contacting you again once you ignore him anyway. Good luck <3

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Katlyn answered Monday September 14 2009, 4:55 pm:
Well its totally understandable that you didnt wanna kiss on the first date and he should understand that but then again its not a big deal so what i think you should do is text or call him and ask if he wants to hang out again and if you two do go out then explain to him that you are interested but just didnt want to kiss on the first date because you didnt want things to move so fast but then tell him your ready to move on to it if he is and if you two dont go out then explain it all to him over the phone tell him you do like him but you didnt want to move so fast and ya say what i said before but ya you should explain why you didnt kiss him so he knows you have a good reason and still are interested.

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