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boy in my class.
hey im 18/f im in college. well i go to community college. i have crush on this guy named Chris. he's really cute, but he thinks way to highly of himself. in other words he's cocky, but he's really quiet and doesn't talk much. in class i said to him oh you must think your really cool and he said i don't think im cool i know i am. and that really got to me cause even my friend James who sits behind me was laughing. I talked to Chris on facebook and we talked about how i thought that he was insecure so that's why he acts cocky. but he denied it. he also told me that he has 2 older brothers, and i think that's why he is the way he is. and he lives with his mom. but when i was talking to him on facebook it was weird because i felt like i was doing all the talking. i kept asking him all the questions and i kinda felt like i was being annoying. So how do i talk to someone who is really quiet? and is it bad that i asked him a lot of questions? for ex. i asked him when his birthday was and he just told me it was in October. he didn't say what day. i have a really bad habit of getting way too excited when i talk to a guy, i talk too much, i start looking at their facebook constantly. and i ask way to many questions. and i don't want to mess this up. and i asked him if he wanted to hangout like after class and he said he couldn't because he has work. He has 2 jobs. so i tol d him to let me know when he can hangout but he hasn't so far. so help. sorry this is really long.
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yeah i agree with the previous columnist, but also, that he might start to like you, but you really need to play it cool! and don't try to analyse everything about him, like his family. if you get way too excited, then let it out in small bursts. for instance, ignore him for a couple of days then show an interest. im guessing you arent planning on asking him out, so make him spend more time with you, but don't go into full army plan mode. just find a time where you can causally ask him out wiht you and your friends, but then act as though, you aren't obsessing about him. but yeah, most of all, DON'T analyse him!! guys really hate it. especially if they were thinking of asking you out, because it's a turn off, since it gives him ideas on what kinda girlfriend you might be.
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To be honest with you, it sounds like this guy just likes you as a friend #1, and #2 he sounds like he is a bit immature and like he is not ready for a relationship right now anyway. Don't be over anxious to get a boyfriend, just have lots of friends and when you find a mature guy show him your interest in him.
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