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Awkward...
Hi i recently met this girl, didnt really have much of a conversation with her but asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. She said sure, so i asked her a couple minutes ago if she wanted to get coffee. If she says yes, then how do I prevent awkward silence while we are together, seeing as i dont really know to much about her?
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Ask her about stuff. Bring up music, movies, friends, school, hobbies, etc. Any of those things can instantly spark a conversation. :)
Have fun on your coffee date. I'm sure nothing about it will be awkward. :)
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I started dating my boyfriend after knowing him for a week. We played 20 questions for a long time. Eventually you'll ask a question that will remind you or her of a memory, then she'll tell the story and you'll have a conversation. It worked for us and eventually you know so much about them that there aren't any questions to ask. Just let her know its a game. Like say "lets play a game" and then do it. Otherwise it might seem like you're putting her on trial if you just ask her a bunch of questions.
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Ask her what she likes to read, what music and movies she likes, etc. It may seem awkward at first, but just a question or two will usually spark discussion. Try to find something in common. She probably has the same concerns and will be relieved to answer your questions instead of thinking of something to fill silence.
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Why don't you use that time when you're out together to find out more about each other. Get to know each other more and see how it goes from there.
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