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i acted like he likes me but likes someone else
i really like this guy. and i dont get him cause im new at this school .. and i havent really made that many friends yet, and he always comes and sits with me when im alone and asks me where i am in the break etc. so today we sat down and talked. and it was going really well until he started to tell me about his problems and that he still has feelings for his ex???!!! that kinda broke my heart cause he is honestly my dream guy and it always seemed like he likes me. cause he also got jealous when i flirted with other guys and when i sit with him he always tells his friends to go away, when they come. and like now i think that hes just talking to me cause he feels sorry for me? and him not liking me but liking someone else really broke my heart. i cant stop crying & seeing him now hurts so much. what should i do?
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Firstly, don't let this upset you. I don't think he feels sorry for you at all else he wouldn't want to know where to meet you, and get jealous when you flirt with other guys. I hate it when guys do this because it really messes with girls feelings! I think he likes you but he just wants you to know that he's still hurting from his previous relationship (maybe he realised that you liked him and wanted to save yourself from getting hurt, who knows?) All you can do is talk to him. Express your feelings to a degree - in other words tell him how you feel without mentioning that he is your dream guy! Keep it low key. Explain that you know he has feelings for his ex, but you are starting to gain feelings for him and you wanted to see how he felt without being pushy. I hope it works for you :-)
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Well he just has feeling for her and if they broke up 2 years ago im sure shes moved on now and is dating somone else and i think he likes you but doesnt know for sure and he probably just needs time so be supportive tell him that its k to miss his ex but the truth is shes probably moved on and its time for him to move on and find someone else and tell him that theres plenty of great girls out there and he shouldnt waste time thinking about someone who isnt even in his life anymore say this all in a supportive and nice way make him feel comfortable with you and then im sure slowly he will get closer with you and then you can have your chance to be his gf because im sure he will start having feelings for you eventually. good luck :)
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