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I broke up with him.
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 9:38 pm
Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl.
I just broke up with my emotionally abusive (now ex) boyfriend of about four years...over four years? Literally, about an hour ago. Right now, I'm feeling pretty free and good about it, but I know it's been an addictive relationship, and I'm worried that I'll second-guess myself and talk to him if he tries to contact me, and wind up stuck again.
I got my key back to my car and apartment, so he can't get in. I don't think he has any malicious intent...but I also don't think he believes that I'm serious about the breakup.
So...
When it sets in for both of us, I'm pretty sure we'll both be really upset, and I know I'll miss him and want him back at some point.
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does he like me?
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 5:24 pm
okay, so this year i ride the bus with this kid, peter right? and he's always like tickling me and touching me and playing with my hair and we're friends and stuff, but i don't know him that well at all so i wouldn't know if he's just a flirty guy or whatever. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior. no, that doesn't bother me, but that's the reason i can't tell if he's just a flirty guy or not. we talk about everything on the bus. and i like having guy friends, so i always talk about my guy friends and funny stories from when people texted me that night. apparently he thought i had a boyfriend because i was doing a "group" dress up kind of thing for halloween right... and with a guy. i really like him, i flirt back, but he still doesn'...
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What should I do???
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 1:39 pm
What would you do if you know that this guy likes you and he is the GAYEST guy on earth and you HATE him?!?!
By the way: that guy keeps on asking about my feelings and talks to me...asks me personal questions which r none of his business.
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to long to let go
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 12:15 pm
ok so he is 18 and I am 16 his name is jake.
We have been dating for 7 and a half months and we feel like we are in love. I know its teen age love but never the less we call it love. We dudnt fight untill we were together for about 3 or 4 months and we were fighting because we never got to spend privet time together and everything was done when he wanted it. we hung out when he wanted and we talked when he wanted and he wouldnt even call me unless he felt like it. Dont get me wrong we always text but its nice to get a call. well latly the fights have gotten worse and it has almost got us to brake up I want time to myself but I want him too idk what to do I love him and wont dump him, I am afraid to lose him because all my friends lik...
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rebound or he does like me? don't know what to do.. help? :)
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 11:10 am
Hey guys. F. 17.
Well, let me first start that I have been speaking to this guy for about 2 weeks now. And I have 1 class with him. Lets call him nate. Well I've been kinda crushing on nate since freshman year and he didn't know it. Nate also had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after he messaged me on myspace. Saying hi that he thinks im cute and if I have a sn. (Sry if this is long =)) so we started to talk and his away messages r all like really depressing bcz his girlfriend broke up with him. So we kinda got used 2 eachother and we flirt a lot online. And he says that he wants me 2 help him 4get about her. He says its soon 2 go out but maybe next month. Sometimes he still writes on his away messages "why did u leave m...
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playful touching
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 2:10 am
i have a "thing" if thats what you want to call it with this guy, we've known each other for like 5 years now. i'm 19f.
i'm a huge flirt .. but i need new things to do because i always feel like i do dumb things. lets say a guy taps your butt gently, what would you do? i panic and smile and say "doooont ;)" but i mean come on.. that may give him the wrong impression i dont like it, right?
i can't really think of anything right now but usually if he will playfully touch me i'll panic and laugh a little and be like "stop:)!"
but i'm done with that childish stuff.. what can i do back to him??
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Can't Talk to girls
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 8:44 pm
Ok this year for some reason i can't talk to girls and im 14 and a guy. Ive had 1 gf and that lasted a week. We txt each other alot well sorta but tahts about it. I would talk to her sometimes at school but not more than 2 min topps and i would hug her thats it.
Any Advice what i could do or what might b wrong kuz its annoying me.
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When trying to be friends with my recent ex....
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 7:36 pm
Well, I know that rebounding is no good, but I made the mistake of rushing into something :/. Yesterday I found out my ex boyfriend was out with this girl that he used to like (and who i know he likes now) and just hearing this made me break down. I knew I had to talk to someone, so I ended up talking to this guy who I have always had a thing for. On the phone I told him what I found out and how I felt sad and he kind of cheered me up. Then out of nowhere I told him that even though I'm not over my ex, I kind of like him! Ahh so today at school I was hanging out with my ex and my friend. My friend has a class with the guy I like so I asked her if he said anything...but my ex was confused and when I told him he seemed to change his mood. :/ ...
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broken heart
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 5:16 pm
15/f
so me and my boyfriend of 8 months recently broke up but its nothing official because we have these bipolar moments where we say we hate each other and the next we're hugging and kissing each other. but he says we need a break because i was "unfaithful" to him 2 months ago. and now people at school have been saying that he is trying to get with this other girl, but i never see them talking or together so i dont even know if this is true. i know he has her number because i saw it in his phone but other than that, i wouldnt even think they knew each other. i really love him alot, there's no way i can possibly move on, there's no one out there for me except him .... so please i need to find a way to get him back a...
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Making out
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 3:43 pm
I'm a female in highschool. This might sound kind of stupid but when I makeout with my boyfriend or hookup with guys (when i'm not in a relationship) I want them to like making out with me. Any tips on how to be really good at making out or what to do when making out to make the other person get more into it?
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Communicating with the guy I like
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 3:30 pm
So, I'm 15/f and I've been talking to this boy that I like recently. We've hungout a few times and everyone says he likes me and I like him too but the only problem is, is that he isn't a big communicating person. Like he doesn't text that much, exspecially doesn't talk on the phone, and I don't see him long enough to talk to him in school since we aren't in any of the same classes. Any advice on how to approach him and tell him that we need to text or talk more if we want to have a relationship? because I went through this last year with my ex boyfriend who (texted me more then this current guy does) but in person and when we hungout it was sometimes akward and quiet, which is the opposite for my current guy. I tend to fall for guys who ar...
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How can iknow he likes me or not?
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 7:20 am
Okay, I've been hanging out with one of my new friends Corey, and I like him ALOT. & He knows too. But I'm not sure if he likes me back. He dated one of my best friends, ( and she's okay that I like him ) and she chills with us all the time. She dated him for a very short period of time, but he didn't tell her he liked her or anything. A friend just hooked em up? I don't know if I should get her to help us? Or should I just ask him hows he feel? Or what? I'm really confused. Thanks in advanced(:
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Still Lost.
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 2:43 am
To sum it up my whole high school career I experienced love. My first love and then the one who stole it.I was with both guys for roughly a year and a half each. The 2nd guy and I ended a little over a year ago and that was still the last time I had real feelings for someone. I've never experienced such a harsh and hurtful breakup as I did with him, not even when I had to break the heart of my very first love. Now this 2nd guy still crosses my mind especially on my lonely days. He hasn't spoken to me since we broke up a year ago. Sometimes I get scared that I won't be able to find someone to fill this hole. I'm 19 and finally living the single life which I haven't really gotten to experience growing up. There has been hopefuls, people who s...
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abandonment issues, relationships, and fucking up
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 2:10 am
15/f
It's my first year of highschool and I’ve made many friends (mainly juniors). I've been asked out quite a few times which is, to be honest, a weird thing to experience considering I’ve spent the past nine years in a school being referred to as "the tranz" or "the ugly fuck". A little while ago, no more than a little over a month ago, I began going out "dating" my friend. He's a junior and it being that we both had just recovered or somewhat recovered from abusive relationships, well, we understood each other and could empathize completely with each other.
I'm adopted and for some reason when it comes to serious relationships or even just friendships, my abandonment issues tend to...
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hanging out with an ex
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 11:19 pm
Tonight I called my ex, (i broke up with him in early october). We haven't spoken on the phone since the break up, just occasional texting. Well tonight I told him I still and always loved him and he said that he always knew i loved him. He wants to hang out when i come home for thanksgiving. I don't know what to do. It's sort of like we're starting from scratch? But we went out for 8 months.
Well we need something to do that won't involve sitting in his bedroom because we know where that leads, and we just need to be able to reconnect and talk. I'm basically asking for date ideas?
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Sex, Relationships, and the Future
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 10:18 pm
25/F. I have only had sex once, when I was 19, and only for literally a few minutes. What could have gone wrong, did go wrong: the condom broke, the guy (same age) freaked out and panicked, told me to leave his apartment ( i know, total asshole), and I took plan B two days later. I got tested for STD's, and got a pregnancy test. The jerk did not even call me until a month later, only to ask if I had gotten my period. Seriously. Total prick.
To be clear, I was very naive at that point. I did not stick up for myself in the least, and did something I was not at all comfortable doing. I didn't even date this guy, and already knew he had a girlfriend. These are things I would NEVER, EVER even think of doing now, all these years...
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Cute boy behind me
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 9:28 pm
17/f I'm really shy but there is this really cute boy behind me how can I flirt with him or make conversation?
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REALLY protective around his friends...
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 9:07 pm
Heyyy. Okay so my boyfriend is fifteen (sixteen in a month) and is a sophomore. I am fourteen and a freshman. We haven't been dating long. Like, about a month and a half I think and almost everything is perfect. He's adorably cute and totally awesome. The one problem is he gets really protective of me around his friends. I guess you could say his friends are... bad? Hahah, I don't know... My bf isn't bad but his buddies are all sophomore boys and they you know, I guess, don't really respect me? Like one of them hits on me all the time and one like smacks my butt. They mean it jokingly and I know they don't actually like me, I think they just do it to make my boyfriend mad. And he gets mad... But he loves his friends and they really are nice...
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how to move on from someone you cant move on from
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 8:08 pm
I am in love with someone who doesnt care. there is no one to move on to and i need physical attention so i keep going back to him. I would just have sex with someone else but i just cant do it. i keep going back to the same guy thinking i am going to change his mind bc i think he really does love me back. i have gone long periods of time without talking to him and i miss him i dont want anyone else and i am not happy by myself
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Im 14 and am thinking about getting fingered???
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 6:24 pm
This guy who is two years older than me (i have known him for 2 years)Well we started talking and then we started talking about him fingering me or me giving him oral...I have seriously been considering letting him finger me..So what do you guys think.I would prefer comments that arnt saying im to young cause i think i am ready.I have a good head on my shoulders..Anyway what does it feel like and what do i do to be ready fer it?
Thanks :]
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