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rebound or he does like me? don't know what to do.. help? :)


Question Posted Friday November 13 2009, 11:10 am

Hey guys. F. 17.
Well, let me first start that I have been speaking to this guy for about 2 weeks now. And I have 1 class with him. Lets call him nate. Well I've been kinda crushing on nate since freshman year and he didn't know it. Nate also had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after he messaged me on myspace. Saying hi that he thinks im cute and if I have a sn. (Sry if this is long =)) so we started to talk and his away messages r all like really depressing bcz his girlfriend broke up with him. So we kinda got used 2 eachother and we flirt a lot online. And he says that he wants me 2 help him 4get about her. He says its soon 2 go out but maybe next month. Sometimes he still writes on his away messages "why did u leave me" and stuff like that. So sometimes I feel like he jus has me around 2 flirt. And he's really quiet in class. Never talks. He smiles at me A LOT though. Says im pretty and wants 2 invite me to the movies.. I don't know what to say 2 him. I like him too. And I also recently broke up with my BF. So we r both hurt, he keeps telling me that he wants me 2help him forget about her. So I don't know what to do.. Any advice.? Does he really like me or am I just a toy for him?? Help. Thanks soo much. -sincerly, confused??


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advice_guru answered Saturday November 14 2009, 12:05 am:
hey. i read your question and i could relate to it. it seems as if this boy is really hurt and he is just looking for an easy target to help him get over his ex. i believe he he told you that. he is still obviously in love with his ex gf and it might take a while to get over her. if he is asking "why did she leave him?" it means he wants her back and when she walks back into his life you will be history. i,m sure you dont want to get hurt again do you? there are plenty of guys out there who are single and emotionally available :) ill advice you just to stay away from him until you notice he might be over his ex but dont count on it because you might not know.Just give him time try not to get attached. hope this helped :) feel free towrite me if you need more help.
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Katlyn answered Friday November 13 2009, 8:55 pm:
I think theres a chance he might like you but dont get too attached because he might think he likes you but then not or maybe he could be just looking for someone to help him get over his ex until he tells you how he feels you wont know for sure so ill i can say is dont get you hopes up too high but dont lose hope either just give him time if he likes you he will tell you soon :D

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