what do i do when my relatives keep on comparing me to others and they keep on calling me fat or boring. It really lowers my self esteem when they do that.
tell them how much its effecting you. they probably don't know its lowering your esteem. My family use to do the same thing to me. It really lowered my self esteem. They even called me ugly but the truth is they weren't aware of how it was hurting me. i grew up feeling that way and just learn to have confident in my self. I would say talk with them. sit down and tell them how its effecting you. or every time they compare you to someone or call you fat, tell them how you feel and that you will appreciate it it they will stop. Be strong about it. be a little assertive so they will take you seriously. I dont think its fair in the first place for someone to call you fat or keep comparing you to others, or even calling you boring. good luck and let me know how it goes. hope i helped.
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okay im 15 sophmore and the last day b4 vacation started my friend george told me that he's friend xavier wanted to see me b4 8th period he had chines and have polish and those classes are next to each other. so i went there and i saw him i know he saw me and he was pushing his frineds inside the class room alonge with him self. and i waited incase he would you know come back out. but he never did. so i went to my class feeling all bumbed. he said he liked me and i like him to. so know schools going to start and im not sure what i should do. aproach him or talk to him. i just dont know what to do.
just ask him if he wants to hangout
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ok i like this popular jock and i dont know him at all and im not ito popular jocks i think realy inconsiderate and rude and im in his class for like the wholeyear and he knows who i am and my friends say that either he might like me cuz he does look at me sometimes or u have no chance at all and when i try to stop liking him it comes back though and i think i wastin my time but i am so shy i can flirt w/ my guy friends for fun and stuff but not w/ guys i like so can someone just give me advice?
the only way you could find out if someone likes you is to ask them. why dont ask him to come hangout with you and freinds on a weekend or something. ask in a very freindly way. or ask for help with homework. look at his reaction. if he is willing to help you then thats a sign. let me know how it goes
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i'm having some trouble deciding on what religion i actually am. i was brought up catholic and i'd like to believe i'm catholic because i believe in everything the bible says about jesus and the resurrection and all. however i think that gay marriage shouldn't be a problem (as long as they don't raise children). and i don't see the big deal in having sex before marriage, as long as you're in love and not just being a prostitute or whatever. i don't really know much about religion so can someone help me out to religions i could look into? thankss.
you should look into new age spirituality. its not particularly a religion with all limiting rules and everything. i was born catholic but i started to question it just like you.then i got into new age, its spiritually satisfying. its teaches bout karma, selfless love, self awareness and stuff like that. its not discriminating.go to this website and leme know what you think http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Age
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ive got some hair extensions, there only chee ones £5.00 but there actually quit nice but the ends have gone all frizzy :(
does anyone know how to get them back to normal ?
ive tried...
1. washing them with shampoo & conditioner
2- straightening them
but what else could i do ?
help please
if it is synthetic u should prolly not straigten them, but you could try WEAVE CARE FEATHER LIGHT DETANGLER BY SOFTSHEEN-CARSON and SMOOTH SHINE POLISHING SPRAY ON POLISHER. if its human hair u can use this products and straighten the hair with a flattening iron ive been using them for my extentions. hope this helps.
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So, I'm 15/f and I've been talking to this boy that I like recently. We've hungout a few times and everyone says he likes me and I like him too but the only problem is, is that he isn't a big communicating person. Like he doesn't text that much, exspecially doesn't talk on the phone, and I don't see him long enough to talk to him in school since we aren't in any of the same classes. Any advice on how to approach him and tell him that we need to text or talk more if we want to have a relationship? because I went through this last year with my ex boyfriend who (texted me more then this current guy does) but in person and when we hungout it was sometimes akward and quiet, which is the opposite for my current guy. I tend to fall for guys who are shy about showing how they feel about a girl, but I'm just attracted to them more then guys who try to hard and are obsessed with a girl. So any advice?
roxy is right. Talk to him. Make the first move. when you start initiating contact or convo he will feel more comfortable. He is in his shell and you can make him come out. Most people begin to open up when they become comfortable. figure out what makes him tick. If you want to talk to him on the phone you can call him and try to talk about things he is interested in. Maybe music or his hobbies. He will engage in the convo and that might make him more comfortable with talking on the phone with you. hope this helps.
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Okay so I nee this question answered immediately! -November 13!- I need to know what to wear tomorrow! i have a date at the movies and I usually Know what to wear but I don't this time! Help me! My style is kind of Punk/gothy so I need something in that region!
wear one of your best dresses. i kno they have some really cool rocker dresses. since its gold outside you could wear some black legging under it. you could wear some converse with it or boots if you have any. you want to look cute yet laid back. hope this helps.
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Hey guys. F. 17.
Well, let me first start that I have been speaking to this guy for about 2 weeks now. And I have 1 class with him. Lets call him nate. Well I've been kinda crushing on nate since freshman year and he didn't know it. Nate also had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after he messaged me on myspace. Saying hi that he thinks im cute and if I have a sn. (Sry if this is long =)) so we started to talk and his away messages r all like really depressing bcz his girlfriend broke up with him. So we kinda got used 2 eachother and we flirt a lot online. And he says that he wants me 2 help him 4get about her. He says its soon 2 go out but maybe next month. Sometimes he still writes on his away messages "why did u leave me" and stuff like that. So sometimes I feel like he jus has me around 2 flirt. And he's really quiet in class. Never talks. He smiles at me A LOT though. Says im pretty and wants 2 invite me to the movies.. I don't know what to say 2 him. I like him too. And I also recently broke up with my BF. So we r both hurt, he keeps telling me that he wants me 2help him forget about her. So I don't know what to do.. Any advice.? Does he really like me or am I just a toy for him?? Help. Thanks soo much. -sincerly, confused??
hey. i read your question and i could relate to it. it seems as if this boy is really hurt and he is just looking for an easy target to help him get over his ex. i believe he he told you that. he is still obviously in love with his ex gf and it might take a while to get over her. if he is asking "why did she leave him?" it means he wants her back and when she walks back into his life you will be history. i,m sure you dont want to get hurt again do you? there are plenty of guys out there who are single and emotionally available :) ill advice you just to stay away from him until you notice he might be over his ex but dont count on it because you might not know.Just give him time try not to get attached. hope this helped :) feel free towrite me if you need more help.
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