welcome to all of those who think they have endless problems.Think its too late?No one else will know how it feels?No one will understand? well give it a try cuz i have the answer for you !!
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I treat others the way I want to be treated but I never get it back. People constantly take advantage of me whether it be in romantic relationships or otherwise. Sometimes I think I should change but I don't want to turn into a bad person!!! What should I do? (link)
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dear friend,i want you to always remember that life is not always going to be easy and you should never give up.changing yourself is definetly not the right answer,but being wise doesn't mean a bad person that's what you should be learning.the situations you have faced before will help you in the future when meeting people who really care and knowing u made right decisions will make your appreciation and love for them grow.as for now never beat an enemy by becoming one to others who might have deserved having the real you.and remember wisdom is never harmful neither to you nor to others.
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Hi, I'm a 22 year old girl.
I just broke up with my emotionally abusive (now ex) boyfriend of about four years...over four years? Literally, about an hour ago. Right now, I'm feeling pretty free and good about it, but I know it's been an addictive relationship, and I'm worried that I'll second-guess myself and talk to him if he tries to contact me, and wind up stuck again.
I got my key back to my car and apartment, so he can't get in. I don't think he has any malicious intent...but I also don't think he believes that I'm serious about the breakup.
So...
When it sets in for both of us, I'm pretty sure we'll both be really upset, and I know I'll miss him and want him back at some point.
You guys have any suggestions to avoid that?
I appreciate any ideas you can give me. =) (link)
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if you really want to avoid that you need to keep yourself busy all the time.Go somewhere with friends but avoid talking about it, if you really want to forget and that's what you both decided then try changing your number to avoid thinking he may call at some point.And have fun take your mind off of all the emotional damage
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i meet someone from along time and really i like him but he don't care about me...
sometimes he show me that he is care but that for a short time but i feel that i'm happy when i'm with him, i need to be with him plz tell me what i can do to let him love me (link)
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don't underestimate yourself
like you said you have know him for a long time and you can even see that he doesn't care enough.Try to give yourself some time to let it go you deserve someone who cares and try to be normal and if he deserves to be liked then you wouldn't have to try doing anything to get him to like you and just be yourself that way if he does like you then you wont regret it
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ok so he is 18 and I am 16 his name is jake.
We have been dating for 7 and a half months and we feel like we are in love. I know its teen age love but never the less we call it love. We dudnt fight untill we were together for about 3 or 4 months and we were fighting because we never got to spend privet time together and everything was done when he wanted it. we hung out when he wanted and we talked when he wanted and he wouldnt even call me unless he felt like it. Dont get me wrong we always text but its nice to get a call. well latly the fights have gotten worse and it has almost got us to brake up I want time to myself but I want him too idk what to do I love him and wont dump him, I am afraid to lose him because all my friends like like him. I am scared that one day we will fight and it will be the end. (link)
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well your feelings towards him are not stable i can see but how about trying this
talk to him and confront him about being kind of selfish sometimes and see his reaction it cant only be you thinking of how to make it better
if he cares enough he'll change just being honest is the best way to find out if its worth the confusion and you know what your friends you say like him wouldn't like being your place so don't even think of what they say its your decision and your feelings
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