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Communicating with the guy I like
So, I'm 15/f and I've been talking to this boy that I like recently. We've hungout a few times and everyone says he likes me and I like him too but the only problem is, is that he isn't a big communicating person. Like he doesn't text that much, exspecially doesn't talk on the phone, and I don't see him long enough to talk to him in school since we aren't in any of the same classes. Any advice on how to approach him and tell him that we need to text or talk more if we want to have a relationship? because I went through this last year with my ex boyfriend who (texted me more then this current guy does) but in person and when we hungout it was sometimes akward and quiet, which is the opposite for my current guy. I tend to fall for guys who are shy about showing how they feel about a girl, but I'm just attracted to them more then guys who try to hard and are obsessed with a girl. So any advice?
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roxy is right. Talk to him. Make the first move. when you start initiating contact or convo he will feel more comfortable. He is in his shell and you can make him come out. Most people begin to open up when they become comfortable. figure out what makes him tick. If you want to talk to him on the phone you can call him and try to talk about things he is interested in. Maybe music or his hobbies. He will engage in the convo and that might make him more comfortable with talking on the phone with you. hope this helps.
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You should be doing exactly what you want him to do... communicate with him!!
Talk him, you need to make the time to see him so your able to communicate!! If he is shy then you may need to make the first move but you should tell him that you like him for him so there is no reason to be shy!!
Good luch hope I helped!
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