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Im 14 and am thinking about getting fingered???
This guy who is two years older than me (i have known him for 2 years)Well we started talking and then we started talking about him fingering me or me giving him oral...I have seriously been considering letting him finger me..So what do you guys think.I would prefer comments that arnt saying im to young cause i think i am ready.I have a good head on my shoulders..Anyway what does it feel like and what do i do to be ready fer it?
Thanks :]
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Haha, i think it's funny how much I relate to this. Im 14 and My boyfriend is 2 years older that me. We been going out for 2 months and i told him i wanted to wait before he fingered me. Well then i changed my mind and i was like well it aint really a big deal right? It's only as big of a deal as you make it. So I let him, and im a virgin and that was the first time ive ever done anything like that. And he was really gentle and it felt really reallly good. It didnt hurt at all. So if you like the guy you should let him. That's m opinion. Doesnt hurt to try something new. (:
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Okay.
If you are still a virgin, then it might hurt.
But if you have done it before, then it shouldn't be no problem. [& if you are ready]
DO whats best.
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well if you really like this guy i say go for it. it feels really good but once a guy does this for a girl she is usually stuck on him (trust me). so make sure this guy is gonna always be there for you and dosn't just want to get some. make sure that whenever your relationship ends it ends cause you want it to not cause he dumps you, cause if that happens its gonna really hurt you. :) good luck.
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14 is not too young. And 2 years older is not too much of an age difference. People saying you need to be ABSOLUTELY sure are not giving you the best advice; while you should think that you're ready, being fingered is not like losing your virginity, in that it isn't a major step in your life and sexuality.
It can feel good if he has experience. There are two parts of fingering, rubbing the clit and actually fingering. Different girls prefer different parts, and you might prefer different speeds and intensities.
The important thing is to relax because with girls, it is hard for them to come if they don't relax. There is really nothing to be worried about.
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you need to think about it,you need to make sure to yourself that you want it and you want to do it!!so that.. whatever happens,you will not regret it coz it's your choice!!
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If you "think" you are ready then you aren't. You have to KNOW when you're ready
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Um well shave if you haven't already. If he knows what he is doing he will rub ur clit, and finger you. You need to relax in order for it to feel good though especially the first time. If your stressed it will probably hurt. Just calm down, if it is not good the first time it will prob be better if he does it again shortly after, once your wet.
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If he's experienced, he'll probably know what to do and it most likely won't feel weird. However, if he's never done it before, he'll probably be a little rough so you need to speak up and tell him if something is too uncomfortable or else he won't know and he won't be able to fix it :)
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