Hey this is a temporary account as my normal one never seems to work, with advicenators new account validation thing. Anyway I have been a member since 2006, I love this site and helping anyone who needs help. I may be young but I have a lot of life experience and will try and help anyone in need.I have my beliefs but I understand all points of view. Feel free to ask me whatever you'd like. My normal account is sweetascandy7364, the link is below if you want to check it out.
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okay, so i'm just going to describe myself and preferably guys but girls can also answer. i'm almost 5'4, more like 5'3 and 3/4, kind of skinny (like in my arms and unfortunately my chest) but where my hips and butt are i get wider. i take care of myself really well as far as hygiene, and i try to make sure my clothes, skin, everything is always clean and smells good. i have clear skin as far as acne, pimples, etc. and it's soft but i have freckles on my nose & cheeks and moles covering my body. :( they're not big and huge and hairy or anything like that, they're actualy kind of small, but i still worry about them. anyways, brunette, wavy hair, kind of pointy-ish nose... some people say it compliments my face, but i'm self-conscious about it. hazelish-brown eyes, and i don't wear a whole lot of makeup because i don't like the feeling of it really. i just wear a little eyeliner on my lower lids and mascara, and my eyelashes are dark naturally cause of my hair. i actually kind of like my eyes and some people have told me they're pretty, it's one of the only things i sometimes like about myself. anyways, what i'm most self-conscious about is my chest. it's almost non-existant and it's desgusting. i'm thinking of getting surgery when i'm older if they don't develop by the time i'm like 18-20, not so they're like playboy-model huge but just normal-looking. so, over-all, even if maybe i don't get surgery and do end up developing more, do you think someone might find me attractive? or are the things i don't like about myself a total turn-off? (link)
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Alright well i have absolutely no idea how old you are, and it really does make a difference. From your description you do sound very pretty. I have freckles and moles all over my self like that too, but you learn to deal with it and in my experience guys tend to care less about it. About the boobs... because you did not mention your age im just going to guess your a middle schooler or young high schooler. From what i noticed is that in middle school boobs seem sooo much more important, cuz everyone's starting to grow them and it gets guys excited. But once your in high school and get older guys really don't care that much. Sure guys are going to think a girl with huge boobs is really hot but when it really comes to dating small boobs will not be a problem. Just give your self time to grow. I really didn't getting any until 9th grade and that really wasn't anything. If your still self conscious at 20 then maybe look into it, but i do not think you need surgery to be attractive. Also get Victoria's secret has some great push up bras!! haha hope i could help, just give your body time to grow.
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Can someone link dreams, parallel universes, and the 12.21.12 Mayan prediction? I've read online about how when one dreams, he or she enters a parallel universe and sees through the eyes of a different version of him- or herself.
However, I read somewhere about the "energy" changing in 2012. What is this "energy" and what is the connection between parallel universes and 2012, if anything?
Please only answer if you genuinely care about this topic and have done research. I don't need a long answer, but this topic blows my mind and I'm very curious. (link)
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hey i don't know if you have already been to this website but i found it fascinating, and very informational on every topic that could possibility relates to 2012. Just thought it would be a good thing to share.
http://www.2012warning.com/
What i find the most interesting about this topic is you can throw away one piece of evidence like the Mayans or religion and you still have so much evidence that it could happen.
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hey for that sims 2 game that delete tip worked but i just need a way to put cheat codes in. Do you know how to put them in? And do you know any for money? thanks (link)
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yea to enter the cheat codes hold ctrl, shift, and the C key down at the same time. A box should appear at the top of the screen.
money cheats:
1. motherlode, gives 50,000
2. kaching, gives 1000
3. familyfunds(familys last name)amount
ex)familyfunds(smith)10000, give whatever amount you want, can be used in the neighborhood screen too.
There are probably some others but that's all you'll really need in terms of money. Oh and if you make a mistake in the spelling and it doesn't work the box might get bigger and the only way to get rid of it is to type exit. Hope I helped! Thanks for asking
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Can someone tell me how to make myself tight "down there" again? It used to be hard for him to get in when we started and now he can pretty much just slide it right in with a little lube. I feel bad and I am afraid he will leave me for someone younger and tighter. Please help me! (link)
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when your peeing stop and hold it mid pee for at least 5 seconds, do this continuously until your done peeing. That will tighten you up relatively quickly.
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well i gave my ex head since we were chill but like before he came i was prefectly fine not sick or anything later after her lefted my thorat started hurting but i know you can get an sort thorat but now i have a cough and been getting really sick is it a good sgin or bad !! (link)
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Um well if he was sick you could have caught it, but probably not that quickly. Its definitely not a good sign. You can get STDs through oral sex, so you may want to further research that. Um otherwise you probably already caught a cold or something beforehand and it is just a consequence.
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hey how do you delete something? i know you pick a item up and press delete but how do you delete walls and fences without pressing undo. I have a huge house built and everything and theres fence going through the one room thats not supposed to be there and i cant undo its been there since the previous save. how do you delete walls and fences?? please help.
this is the sims 2 computer game with no expansions just the regular game.
thanks (link)
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To delete walls and fences click on the tool that makes the walls, then hold the ctrl button and go over the wall you want to remove the same way you built it. Do the same for the fences. I'm pretty sure you have to use the wall tool to delete fences, you cant you the fence tool. This is how you delete a bunch of other things that you build, like foundation, and flooring. (But use that specific tool and hold ctrl)
Hope that was clear enough, if not message me
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Well, I've heard and also researched that usually, the "first time" hurts. It does because the woman's hymen is "broken". Or in understandable terms, "Her cherry is popped". I do not want my first time to hurt, so I'm wondering if the first time ALWAYS hurts...like..for everyone. And is there any way to prevent it from hurting/ bleeding? (link)
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It will probably hurt, or at least feel uncomfortable the first few times. If you use tampons or have gotten fingered you will be less likely to bleed or be in pain. To prevent pain you should do a lot of foreplay ahead of time that way you'll be wet and it won't hurt as much. Also you can take an Advil or two beforehand lol. It will also hurt a lot more if the girl is on top, so have him on top the first time.
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19/female.
i guess everyone has different opinions on this .. but i'd just like to see how everyone feels about this! so i obviously shave down there, but everytime i know or feel like i will be doing something sexual with a guy i feel like i have to be baby smooth down there with absolutely no stubble. it's actually really annoying having to worry about being that smooth but i feel like if i have a little stubble, the guy will be grossed out. i would feel a bit awkward asking haha so i was just wondering (both guys and girls) how you feel about stubble? (link)
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as long as its not a bush and guy who is not a one time thing prob won't care. I hadnt shaved in a while and was afraid to do things with my boyfriend one night. So i asked if it bothered him, and he was like you think i give a f***, i could care less lol. So as long as its manged the guys i know/been with do not care.
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This guy who is two years older than me (i have known him for 2 years)Well we started talking and then we started talking about him fingering me or me giving him oral...I have seriously been considering letting him finger me..So what do you guys think.I would prefer comments that arnt saying im to young cause i think i am ready.I have a good head on my shoulders..Anyway what does it feel like and what do i do to be ready fer it?
Thanks :] (link)
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Um well shave if you haven't already. If he knows what he is doing he will rub ur clit, and finger you. You need to relax in order for it to feel good though especially the first time. If your stressed it will probably hurt. Just calm down, if it is not good the first time it will prob be better if he does it again shortly after, once your wet.
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Hi!
I need to know if I should shave my vagina. I am old enough and when I asked my mom she said I needed to make up my own mind because it was a lot of work to keep it shaved. I guess the real questions I have are is shaved vagina cleaner and do guys like me to have a shaved vagina?
Does anyone else shave "down there?" (link)
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Um I would not completely shave it if you don't have a boyfriend who is going to see it. Definitely trim it, but a complete shave is so unnecessary, and such a hassle. I would shave the bikini area so nothing sticks out of your underwear and leave the rest alone. It is really annoying shaving all the time. You will get irradiation no matter what you do. And actually it is more sanitary to have pubic hair because it diverges the sweat away from your genitals. Anyway its up to you, most guys like it shaven. They wont have a big problem with stubble, but a bush would freak them out.
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I had a kinda embarrassing moment with my new girlfriend. She said something about howher other boyfriends were bigger than me and stuff. :(
So what is considered a small penis anyway?
Mostly I think I need a girlfriend with some manners. lol! (link)
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lol yea that was an extremely insensitive comment, but anyway I would say anything smaller than 5 inches hard is small.
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Hey! I woke up like a week ago and my boobs hurt. They hurt a lot! This is almost a week later and my boobs still hurt. What does this mean? Do I have cancer? :'( (link)
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Well usually it means you getting your period soon, or are on it. Also they tend to hurt if they are growing. I'm not sure what else it could me but it definitely does not indicate cancer. The majority of women who have breast cancer are completely unaware of it until it is picked up on their mammogram. If you have any abnormal lumps on your breast that may indicate cancer. You can test this by dong a BSE (breast self examination) But I really do not think that you have cancer at all. Do not worry about it. Mostly likely it is just hormonal changes. It will go away.
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14/f
i've never had a boyfriend
(so ive never kissed anyone or done anything like that)
i have commitment issues...as in im really scared of a realtionship. i REALLY dont know what to do about it...i mean ill be SO excited because i know that a certain guy likes me, and i get really happy when there talking to me (ive been asked out enough to recognize the "asking out" conversation...) and then they ask me out....and my heart skips a beat and i tell them what i always say: maybe...i have to think about it. and then end up saying no or just letting it fade away without ever giving them an answer
it really kills me because i would do anything for a boyfriend...but apparently i just cant handle the commitment...i like the freedom im flirting with a bunch of guys without worrying about cheating.
i guess subconsciously i sort of believe once im in a relationship thered be NO way out. also, since im a perfectionist, i notice little flaws in the boys that ask me out, which does NOT work for me
i know i probably sound incredibly shallow and probably bipolar but i cant really help it...its just very confusing and i dont know how to get over my fears.
thanks for any help you have :)
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I had the same exact problem as you. I did not have my first kiss until I was 16. The most important thing in the world to me was to have a relationship. Yet every time I had an opportunity to go on a date, or have a boyfriend I found a reason to end it. I sabotaged every chance I had until I was 17. Through out my late middle school/and most of my high school life I was depressed. Although this was not the only cause, it was a major contributor. Do not let this happen to you. You have to take a chance, get out of your comfort zone. No one is perfect, you are not going to be head over heals for someone right away. But that does not mean you shouldn't date them, maybe you'll find some other qualities you did not see on the surface. I know its hard but you have to do it. Even if it doesn't work out, you will learn a lesson, have more experience, and be a better person because of it. I forced my self to do this. I made up a million reasons why i didn't like this one kid. Told myself if it was meant to be I would know it right away. But i stuck with it in spite of his flaws. We dated unofficially for a bit, then became official, and now I am in love with him. I would still be lonely if I did not face my fears and just deal with it. You are not prude, don't listen to what others say, just do things for yourself. Take chances. It will pay off in the end, even if it doesn't work out at first trust me. Hope I could help
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Hi! i'm 16 and i'm still a virgin and i think im ready for sex but i want to know if there is anything important i need to know about before my boyfriend and i do it, just to prepare myself
he's told me that its going to hurt more than when he fingers me, but thats it. (link)
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hey it seems like most people have already gone into grave detail about the stuff you need to know, but here is a great website I like to go to, and that helped me about in the past. Its geared towards teens, and mostly written by them.
check it out sexetc.org
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ok so i had sex like only 5x and how do i keep it tight and can you tell that it is. helppppppppppppppppppppppppppp are there anyways i can make myself tighter or how not to loose the tightness? (link)
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Okay all you have to do is this exercise when you go to the bathroom. When your peeing, stop mid pee and hold it for at least 5 sec. Do this repeatedly until you finish peeing. And do it every time you pee. It tightens you back up right away. My sex ed teacher taught me this.
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Sooo I've never given head before and I've been dating this guy and I really want to go down on him but I"m afraid I'm going to hurt him or do a really bad job. Any advice as to how or what to do? (link)
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Just google how to do it to get a better idea about what to do. Remember to tuck your teeth under your lips so you don't bite him. Use your tongue too as you go in an up and down motion. Don't worry about it, it really is not that hard, a lot easier than a hj in my opinion He'll love it.
(in addition to what i said before, I just found this website it is great!)
http://www.howtogivehead.biz/
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what do the Puns in alice and wonderland symbolize? (link)
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The whole movie is about LSD
Really? How would you know that for sure? I took a class were we analyzed all the LSD references in that movie. I'm not saying you could be entirely wrong, but isn't it up to interpretation.
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hey guys my girrlfriend is coming over next weekend and i want to eat her out and finger her for the first time. ive seen her vagaina before but i dont know what to do to pleasure her like that. like i just dont know what parts to touch or antyhing so advice would be great. thanks (link)
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In addition to what the person before me said you an also lick different place down there besides the clit. Also if you finger or do anything there before you eat her out spit in your hands before. This will give you natural lube sense she won't be that wet when you first start, if she is too dry it will probably hurt, and just not feel very good.
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Yep I have one. :( Is it possible that a yeast infection go away on its own or do I need to go to the doctor and get something to cure it?
Anyone from experience? (link)
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I seriously doubt that it will. Eating yogurt could help it, but will not completely make it go away. I had one a couple of months ago, I feel your pain. You do not need to go to the doctor though. Just go to a drug store and pick up some monastat. Use it for 3 days or however long it says and it will go right away! They are somewhat expensive though, around $20 i think. Some people actually use yogurt (natural yogurt, plain not flavored!) and stick it up there to cure the yeast infection. But i do not suggest doing that at all lol. good luck. The monastat will work
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For Christmas I wanna get my bf a bottle of message oil and then make a cute little coupon thing for a free massage. I know it sounds kinda cheap but he doesnt really have any money to spare and i dont wanna make him feel obligated to get me something expensive. I'm 17 so i'm not gonna like go into a sex shop or anything to get it so i was wondering if anyone knows any like normal stores where you can get massage oil. I was thinking bath and body works but all of their scents are kinda girlie.. i wanted to get him a sandalwood or pachouli or something masculine smelling. haha (link)
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Well they have that kind of stuff in Victoria's secret. It's kissable message oil, so it taste good too! But yea it does have somewhat of a girly scent, but there are different ones to choose from and they are not overpowering. My boyfriend actually really likes the smell, he said it smells really nice, and reminds him of me. Idk just check it out. Hope I could help
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