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Does It Always Hurt?
Well, I've heard and also researched that usually, the "first time" hurts. It does because the woman's hymen is "broken". Or in understandable terms, "Her cherry is popped". I do not want my first time to hurt, so I'm wondering if the first time ALWAYS hurts...like..for everyone. And is there any way to prevent it from hurting/ bleeding?
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To put it simple: everybody is different. Some girls barely feel it, some girls say it hurts really badly. There's no way to tell how badly it's going to hurt for you your first time. There's really no way to prevent it.
-Laura (17-f)
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It will probably hurt, or at least feel uncomfortable the first few times. If you use tampons or have gotten fingered you will be less likely to bleed or be in pain. To prevent pain you should do a lot of foreplay ahead of time that way you'll be wet and it won't hurt as much. Also you can take an Advil or two beforehand lol. It will also hurt a lot more if the girl is on top, so have him on top the first time.
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that is a tricky question there is no right or wrong answer yes it may hurt and yes it may bleed and i havent heard of anything to avoid it to be honest its a natural part of life and the only way to avoid it is not doing it until your ready and think you as a person can handle that type of thing as the skin will always heal back over and it will always have to break so the problem cant be avoided .
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