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am i attractive in any way?
okay, so i'm just going to describe myself and preferably guys but girls can also answer. i'm almost 5'4, more like 5'3 and 3/4, kind of skinny (like in my arms and unfortunately my chest) but where my hips and butt are i get wider. i take care of myself really well as far as hygiene, and i try to make sure my clothes, skin, everything is always clean and smells good. i have clear skin as far as acne, pimples, etc. and it's soft but i have freckles on my nose & cheeks and moles covering my body. :( they're not big and huge and hairy or anything like that, they're actualy kind of small, but i still worry about them. anyways, brunette, wavy hair, kind of pointy-ish nose... some people say it compliments my face, but i'm self-conscious about it. hazelish-brown eyes, and i don't wear a whole lot of makeup because i don't like the feeling of it really. i just wear a little eyeliner on my lower lids and mascara, and my eyelashes are dark naturally cause of my hair. i actually kind of like my eyes and some people have told me they're pretty, it's one of the only things i sometimes like about myself. anyways, what i'm most self-conscious about is my chest. it's almost non-existant and it's desgusting. i'm thinking of getting surgery when i'm older if they don't develop by the time i'm like 18-20, not so they're like playboy-model huge but just normal-looking. so, over-all, even if maybe i don't get surgery and do end up developing more, do you think someone might find me attractive? or are the things i don't like about myself a total turn-off?
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obviously if you have good hygiene, have clear skin, people say youre features compliment you, people tell you youre eyes are pretty, youre attractive. i think you need to not look for approval from other people and just be comfortable with yourself....
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I'm sure alot of people find you attractive!
You're like the perfect height. Guys think short girls are so cute. Plus you have a great shape from what it sounds like. All of my friends who have freckles hate it, but every guy I ask thinks they're adooorable! Most people DO have alotta little moles. Hazel eyes are really cool in my opinion. If you wore a tad more make up it'd make 'em stand out more though. Try doing eyeliner on the top lid too and like a TINY bit of dark-ish brown eye shadow. That's what I wear and everyone always notices my eyes. Your hair sounds gorgeous. If you ever wanna switch it up some, try scrunching, crimping, straightening, or curling it. As for your chest, don't stress, girl. You haven't said your age, but I bet you'll end up developing more and it'll be fine. Push up bras are a girl's best friend. Hahaha, seriously, go to Victoria's Secret. I love theirs. I think a smile is what makes someone beautiful. No matter how you're feelin' that day, try and throw on a smile. (:
Honestly sweetie, you're too hard on yourself. I don't think anyone would find anything about you a turn-off at all. Don't stand in front of the mirror picking every flaw out about yourself. You sound gorgeous and I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that. Look in the mirror and the second you find yourself focusing on what you consider a flaw, just tell yourself to stop. Focus on the good. Focus on how clear your skin is, how silky your hair is, etc. Before you walk through the doors at school, just remind yourself how pretty you are. Eventually you'll believe it, cause trust me, you are.
Hope I helped! :D
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Hi, you do sound attractive to me. I have some freckles and the same kind of moles you have on me but they are kind of beautiful in a way. I also have a pointyish nose that I've had trouble with but I kind of like it now. Alot of boys find short girls cute and my boobs are not like nothing but they aren't full either but I have grown to like them when I am by myself but not if other people should see them but that is okay, it would be weird to have bigger boobs, fake boobs are un natural and are a life commitment as you have to change them a certain number of times over your life to stay healthy. Also, NOBODY found me attractive when I was in middle school but now people say I am so pretty that I am actually trying to be an actress and model. I am 5'7, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes,skinny, and a good person on the inside which is what matters. Haha but you are wayyyyy lucky to have clear skin, I don't have a lot of acne, it is never disgusting but I mainly get it on my chin which suckssss. But then again at least we aren't children in a country like Africa who have never gotten the chance to look at themselves.
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Alright well i have absolutely no idea how old you are, and it really does make a difference. From your description you do sound very pretty. I have freckles and moles all over my self like that too, but you learn to deal with it and in my experience guys tend to care less about it. About the boobs... because you did not mention your age im just going to guess your a middle schooler or young high schooler. From what i noticed is that in middle school boobs seem sooo much more important, cuz everyone's starting to grow them and it gets guys excited. But once your in high school and get older guys really don't care that much. Sure guys are going to think a girl with huge boobs is really hot but when it really comes to dating small boobs will not be a problem. Just give your self time to grow. I really didn't getting any until 9th grade and that really wasn't anything. If your still self conscious at 20 then maybe look into it, but i do not think you need surgery to be attractive. Also get Victoria's secret has some great push up bras!! haha hope i could help, just give your body time to grow.
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