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Member Since: December 5, 2009
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Last Update: December 5, 2009
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ok so this is what is going on.I used to like this this guy last year but he liked my friend the whole year. This year I thought my feelings for him were completely over. Last year he was nice to me buy since he only liked me as a friend it hurt me a lot. So on thursady I saw him in the morning and we talked or whatever. Then he walked me to class and we walked together to another class. Then today I talked to him a little. I really don't want to be hurt again. He has done this kind of thing to me he walks me to my class and we talk but then the next week he dosnt walk me to class and we don't talk. ???? Ughh the bad part is I think I am getting feeling for him again. I think he knows I used to like him and thinks I am always going to be there. How do I prove him wrong? I think I like him but please don't tell me to confront I'm because I know I won't be able to. How can I get him to ask me out? Ohh also when he see me talking to another guy afterwards he tells me how dumb they are. He gives a lot of mixed message what do I do? (link)
Stay away from him, and be completely honest and if he doesn't like you the conversation will freak him out so much he will leave you alone before you get hurt or he will say he likes you.


okay, so i'm just going to describe myself and preferably guys but girls can also answer. i'm almost 5'4, more like 5'3 and 3/4, kind of skinny (like in my arms and unfortunately my chest) but where my hips and butt are i get wider. i take care of myself really well as far as hygiene, and i try to make sure my clothes, skin, everything is always clean and smells good. i have clear skin as far as acne, pimples, etc. and it's soft but i have freckles on my nose & cheeks and moles covering my body. :( they're not big and huge and hairy or anything like that, they're actualy kind of small, but i still worry about them. anyways, brunette, wavy hair, kind of pointy-ish nose... some people say it compliments my face, but i'm self-conscious about it. hazelish-brown eyes, and i don't wear a whole lot of makeup because i don't like the feeling of it really. i just wear a little eyeliner on my lower lids and mascara, and my eyelashes are dark naturally cause of my hair. i actually kind of like my eyes and some people have told me they're pretty, it's one of the only things i sometimes like about myself. anyways, what i'm most self-conscious about is my chest. it's almost non-existant and it's desgusting. i'm thinking of getting surgery when i'm older if they don't develop by the time i'm like 18-20, not so they're like playboy-model huge but just normal-looking. so, over-all, even if maybe i don't get surgery and do end up developing more, do you think someone might find me attractive? or are the things i don't like about myself a total turn-off? (link)
Hi, you do sound attractive to me. I have some freckles and the same kind of moles you have on me but they are kind of beautiful in a way. I also have a pointyish nose that I've had trouble with but I kind of like it now. Alot of boys find short girls cute and my boobs are not like nothing but they aren't full either but I have grown to like them when I am by myself but not if other people should see them but that is okay, it would be weird to have bigger boobs, fake boobs are un natural and are a life commitment as you have to change them a certain number of times over your life to stay healthy. Also, NOBODY found me attractive when I was in middle school but now people say I am so pretty that I am actually trying to be an actress and model. I am 5'7, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes,skinny, and a good person on the inside which is what matters. Haha but you are wayyyyy lucky to have clear skin, I don't have a lot of acne, it is never disgusting but I mainly get it on my chin which suckssss. But then again at least we aren't children in a country like Africa who have never gotten the chance to look at themselves.




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