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how to move on from someone you cant move on from
I am in love with someone who doesnt care. there is no one to move on to and i need physical attention so i keep going back to him. I would just have sex with someone else but i just cant do it. i keep going back to the same guy thinking i am going to change his mind bc i think he really does love me back. i have gone long periods of time without talking to him and i miss him i dont want anyone else and i am not happy by myself
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sometimes move on is the best thing in your situation you have no chice...
but what I think you should do with this time is
just regain your self...and this time with who ever else comes along don't rush or take it slow
you might don't understand so i will explain
why I say don't rush or take it slow casue you can't tell what going to happen each momment so the only thing that best for you to do is just let time tell what right and best for you...
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I think you have answered your own question.
1. This person you keep going back to just doesn't care
2. You have no one to move on to...
3. You are not happy by yourself.
No one likes to be with someone that "just doesn't care." And nearly all of us want to feel wanted and to share intimacy with someone who can return our love.
First of all, I suggest that you examine the situation at least the three points I outlined above that you, yourself made in your question. You know the answer. You need to find someone who loves and wants you. Who shows you the love and respect and attention you need. There are many ways to get out and meet someone, including taking classes, doing volunteer work in your community, joining organizations, striking up a conversation in the library or grocery store....or.....just meeting someone in the many, many online venues for meeting people. Go for it. You ARE worth alot more than what you have now. And only YOU can change your fortune. Good luck.
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This is a tough one. However, if you don't feel equal in the relationship, it is not worth staying in. A famous quote goes "the power in a relationship lies with whoever cares less". The important thing is to leave when you see this coming. You should find someone else to take your mind off him, just keep in mind that you deserve someone who cares about you.
If I am off base, it's because I don't really understand the situation.
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