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REALLY protective around his friends...
Heyyy. Okay so my boyfriend is fifteen (sixteen in a month) and is a sophomore. I am fourteen and a freshman. We haven't been dating long. Like, about a month and a half I think and almost everything is perfect. He's adorably cute and totally awesome. The one problem is he gets really protective of me around his friends. I guess you could say his friends are... bad? Hahah, I don't know... My bf isn't bad but his buddies are all sophomore boys and they you know, I guess, don't really respect me? Like one of them hits on me all the time and one like smacks my butt. They mean it jokingly and I know they don't actually like me, I think they just do it to make my boyfriend mad. And he gets mad... But he loves his friends and they really are nice but this is just how they pick on him. He like actually gets pissed at them and won't let me out of his sight if we're at like a party that they're at too. And I don't know, I feel bad for him. I don't know if there is anything I can do to help... Like is there any way I can help and make the situation better??? Just wondering. Thanks!
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I think the best way to deal with this situation without making it complicated or confusing is to talk to your boyfriend about it and be straightforward..
Well my ex's friends used to jump on me and literally hump me while asleep but they were only messing around and we were close so there was no problems because obviously my boyfriend didn't get over protective or upset.
Just ask your boyfriend what would make him happy or better, and how you can help him with what's going on plus if he is not going to give you privacy around his friends, it's going to get really annoying later on.
Good Luck =]
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If their behavior makes your boyfriend uncomfortable, then he needs to explain that to them. You probably don't want to risk causing a conflict by bringing it up yourself, and it's not your responsibility to. They are your boyfriend's friends, and he should ask them to respect you both. If they don't, then maybe they're not such good friends afterall.
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That doesn't really seem appropriate, for his friends to be hitting on you or smacking your butt. If that makes him unhappy, it should probably stop. Maybe re iterate to them that you are in a relationship with him.
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