okay, so this year i ride the bus with this kid, peter right? and he's always like tickling me and touching me and playing with my hair and we're friends and stuff, but i don't know him that well at all so i wouldn't know if he's just a flirty guy or whatever. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior. no, that doesn't bother me, but that's the reason i can't tell if he's just a flirty guy or not. we talk about everything on the bus. and i like having guy friends, so i always talk about my guy friends and funny stories from when people texted me that night. apparently he thought i had a boyfriend because i was doing a "group" dress up kind of thing for halloween right... and with a guy. i really like him, i flirt back, but he still doesn't text me. and if i text HIM sometimes he doesn't text back. it's so stupid!
anyways, last week he asked me this question: "okay hypothetic question. what if you really really like this girl, and she likes you. but she has a boyfriend? and she's a junior." and of course i totally thought he was talking about someone ELSE, not me. so of course, knowing my luck, and how jealous i was, i gave him this advice "if she's older than you, she probably just wants to hookup or maybe her boyfriend isn't paying attention to her or whatever?" and so that was that. he let it be. the next day he ignored me. the next day, he flirted with me again. the next day, this kid i sit next to on the bus, chris was like "so courtney... how's your boyfriend" and i was like..."i don't have one..." and then i could hear chris and peter having this conversation:
chris-"i thought she did"
peter-"she told me that" (i never did.)
later on that same day i asked chris why he thought i did, and chris said that peter told him that i said i had a boyfriend which is NOT true.
so, what do i do?
thanks in advance <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Katlyn answered Saturday March 6 2010, 5:13 pm: Well just talk to the guy you like and be straight forward and be like i like you and you have been kind of been flirting with me so ive been thinking you like me and just ask him if he does or not and make sure to talk about the fact you dont have a bf. I think you should just ask him because then you'll have your answer and if he does like you the sooner you two can be together and if he doesnt then o well maybe if you guys are friends long enough he will end up liking you. Good luck :) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
Katlyn answered Saturday November 14 2009, 5:30 pm: K well obviously there is a huge misunderstanding between you and him so you need to clear things up ask him to meet you somewhere so you guys can talk and tell him everything and hopefully he will understand and you guys cant start your relationship so ya basically you need to tell him so he doesnt stay confused about whats going on. Good luck :) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
DrNeice answered Friday November 13 2009, 9:18 pm: i would just go up to peter and say y did you think i had a boyfriend and i never told you that and later that nite txt him wat do i do if i lik this boy and and he is a sophmore and say that you think that he likes you 2 but for sure and c if he txts bac [ DrNeice's advice column | Ask DrNeice A Question ]
Nini234 answered Friday November 13 2009, 8:33 pm: I think tv best thing you can do is confront peter about it. If you ask other people about it they might just make things worse. Peter probably les like you but is to shy to ask you out or think you will say no necuase you are a junior. I hope my advice helped you put a little. [ Nini234's advice column | Ask Nini234 A Question ]
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